She's told her close friends about some of the stuff that's happened in her life, or me anyways...and you're right EleganceandFlaws I do care about her regardless, I will always be there for her, no matter how much she's pissed me off in the last few days, but I don't think she really understands that.
I hope I am not crossing a line and becoming stalker like...
I realize that with due time, you'll explain in your biography of sorts, but I wonder... have you ever told any of this to these close friends, you mention? If they're good friends as they should be, they will care about you regardless of what you tell them. And they'll be there for you. Or have you just given up on trying?