How CHILDISH. - Comments

When I go to the bathroom I always ask casually if anyone else needs to go as well so I'm not alone, but if no one does then I just suck it up and go by myself. It's not immature or childish, it's just that she wants someone to tag along.

As for the slapping, that sounds really horrible. Maybe she's using you to get her anger out or something. You should really talk to her, even if you're scared because that's just not right.

I had a friend who used to call out 'Rape' when any of us touched her, it was quite embarrassing but we got her to stop :/

I'm with Auroria Lenore and Audrey T.

You have to tell her how you feel ,and especially tell her to stop slapping you. I had a cousin who went around one day smacking my boyfriend;s arm with a wet towel, and when I told her to stop, she whacked me across the backs of my bare legs with it. So then I got rougher with her about it, and she finally stopped. (Admittedly, I did take the towel and hit her once with it, but what can I say? It really hurt).

At fourteen, no one is exactly at their most mature, but the way your friend acts is extreme. Tell her you think she's a good friend, but she needs to grow up a little.

And mleh, I hate when people want me to go to the bathroom with them. Why do girls feel the need to go to the restroom in packs?

you know what you need to do. When she slaps you next time, you need to slap her back and be like "Ho, where ma money at!"

...ch, yeah. As you can see, my mental stability is anything but.

I say you give her a taste of her own medicine and hit her HARD. I mean, I'm not really into violence and stuff but yeah let her feel what its like to be on the receiving end for once maybe that will give her something to think about.

I don't think her behavior has much to do with her age, to be honest. It's more to do with her personality. I mean, I was fourteen once and neither I nor my friends behaved that way. You don't act that way, and neither do your other friends. It's not her being childish or immature, she just seems to have an all around bad attitude.

I understand that you don't like confronting her about things, because of her nasty attitude and the way she treats people, but someone needs to. If no one does, she'll just continue acting the way she does and eventually everyone's going to get sick of it.

Maybe you need to get tougher with her. If you don't want to do something (like go with her to the bathroom) just tell her no. Of course, at first, she'll get all pissy about it, but she will get over it. If she hits you again, just tell her it hurts and to not do it again. Again, she might get affronted, but she'll get over it and the air will be clearer between the two of you.

she slaps people around and ShE's the one that needs help going to the toilet? :|
i would've just tell her off and been like, "grl that hurt"

i have an abusive friend and she hits super hard. she humiliates and tortures ppl in public; enemies or friends.. she sometimes make me go everywhere with her.
the girl got anger issues but she knows haha. all her friends know too. they tell her but she doesnt stop which i wonder why. but at least my friend knows shes mean like that.

does Emma know the way she acts? all i can say for advice is tell her shes a childish girl who can kill someone with her slaps

I've known this for a long time, most of the girls at my school need a second person to go with them everywhere. Like some kind of messed up accessory.
And we're like 16-17 years old.

I've gotten use to seeing it happen here. ><

I'm freakin' 18 and I hate it when I have to go to a public toilet, or well, practically anywhere by myself. It's called social anxiety and it's a bitch.
I don't think of it as childish, because if you're not in that state of mind, you can't understand how it's like for the person, and what they're feeling.

As far as the slapping thing goes, just tell her that it hurts you when she hits you and ask her to stop.

When I go to the toilet, or need to get a drink or go see a teacher or go to the canteen, i usually ask one of my friends to go, only I ask Tyanna, my only girl friend for the toilet one...the guys usually tag along if it's near break and have a class together.
Otherwise, none of us go anywhere on our own really, and we're all turning 17 next year, and we're in year 12 next year.

It's not necessarily childish of someone to ask a friend to go with them to the toilet, or other places I mentioned above, it's just nice to have someone to walk and talk with, so you're not alone.

Like I said, we're nearly 17 and we all make people go places with us; and only having 2 girls in the group, it's easier, no bitching really. It's really just to help a friend out by accompanying them.

As for the slaps; just tell her and if she doesn't listen, play it out and slap her back...if she is a true friend, you wont need to get to that point, but seriously, just slap her one back.

That is fairly childish, I suppose. It seems like most girls I know go to the bathroom in packs, though. If one girl gets up to go, three go with her. I'm thinking that's just a social thing.

The hitting thing is what's more childish to me. That's something that should be taken care of.

She's 14...She's a kid and no matter how immature you think she is no one actually grows up until they are grown up but yeah one day she's gonna slap some girl that won't take her crap and she's gonna get the shit beat out of her.

dude... she is 14 and needs someone to go with the toilet with her? hahah! my god... tell her to grow up.

It sounds like she needs a reality check on the slapping thing, if she's 14 then she knows better and definitely knows that it hurts, if she keeps it up she'll probably end up getting her ass kicked