December 17th, 2009 at 03:58am
I had this same exact problem with pretty much the same exact questions with someone I dated for a short period of time last year.
I did end up breaking up with him, and although we were really awkward and didn't talk much until about this year, we both ended up happy. So sometimes you just have to go for it. You'll probably feel bad, but the probability that it will all end up okay in the end outweighs the probability that it won't.
don't do it.