Dabbling In Polyamory? - Comments

  • Jinxeh

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    v Ah, fair point. (Let my own experiences with it guide my comment, there.) Though the general idea behind my comment still stands.
    December 21st, 2009 at 07:35am
  • folie a dru.

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    @Jinxeh: Polyamory doesn't haven't to refer to both genders at the same time.
    December 20th, 2009 at 05:00pm
  • Jinxeh

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    I...find it odd, why you decided to "become" "poly-curious." Also, you're fifteen. No offense, but slow your roll. Maybe get some experience at all with either gender, before you try for both at one time?
    December 20th, 2009 at 08:09am
  • folie a dru.

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    I've never experienced polyamory but it's something I'm extremely interested in, open to, and hope to end up in.
    December 20th, 2009 at 07:33am
  • veronika

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    I would go into something like this open minded, and with boundaries. If you want to have a relationship where it's all open and everyone consents, it's important to have boundaries so that people's feelings don't get hurt. Because even in open relationships, feelings like jealousy, feelings of being left out or feelings of being unwanted / unloved can still strike.

    Perhaps also consider finding someone similarly minded to you to start a relationship with and then let it grow - literally - from there (because it might be a tad hard to find a group of people all at once who are interested).
    December 20th, 2009 at 06:43am
  • Spalana

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    i find polyamory very strange and dont aprove of it. My religion also doesn;t aprove of it. but I wish you luck in your adventures
    December 20th, 2009 at 05:40am