Troubles with liking the guy I like: - Comments

Woah woah woah, just because he likes to fight doesnt mean that he is going to hurt you. (referring to the very first comment.)

He does sound like a bad kid..and strangely just like a couple of my friends, and go figure just like my boyfriend's best friend. And somewhat like my boyfriend.

Just because he does all that, to me doesnt necessary mean hes horrible. I mean, there has got to be good stuff about him too. Now, my friend (boyfriends friend too) He has went to jail like 4 times. Gonna go back when he gets back from california for failing a drug test. He has out right punched a girl, (he regrets it though) Got sent away for smokin pot and popping c's. So many girls thinks hes a scumbag. But the thing is, that even though he does all that shit. He really isnt that bad. If he got a girl that he respected & respected herself the boy would go down right crazy for her.

And my boyfriend for example, before me he did this weird cycle. Where he had a new girlfriend every new week. Cheated on them and everything, lied to them. He has been sent away also, and jesus even the pill popping and smoking pot. But when it comes right down to it, even though he does all those things and my good friends didint really care for him at first and some still dont. But when it comes right down to it he is a damn good father. He is a damn good boyfriend.

My boyfriend is one of those kids that can handle pain...rather well actually. Its somewhat disturbing really. haha. But just because he does all that doesnt necessarily mean he you should stay away.

And he's only done that to 2 girls? By any chance did those girls...idk...not respect themselves? Because if they date, then have sex then break up..then honestly you can kinda see that coming.

it seems like there is somethin more than just his bad boy image
but unless your a psyciatrist give up because those type of boys wont change anytime soon
unless u r strong enough to deal with those deep issues and unless hes willing to deal with them issues just leave it coz if there is a nice boy deep down, he's hidden to far for the rest of the world to find.

Those are just too many flaws, in my opinion. If he was just a druggie or just a bad kid, I would say okay, maybe you could be the thing that fixes him. But since he's a druggie, a bad kid, a woman user, and your friend thinks he's a scumbag, I have to say stay away from him.

Don't feel stupid for writing this journal though. I mean, you can't really help liking someone but you can, however, avoid turning it into something.

I don't really think when I write. Well, I don't think period.

Yeah.

I'm thinking that if you just listed all of that, that you should read your own journal.

I agree with Kuzts.
Even if he IS better then that, he's probably self destructive.

Question: how can you say he's not really bad after listing all of that? He's high all the time, he's sexed obsessed which means he'll probably use you too, he gets in fights which probably means he'll hurt you and he likes injuring himself.
Why do you want to be with someone like that? Don't YOU think you deserve better?