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  • MandieeVengeance

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    vv/ Thats for all theadvice guys. When I see Justin on Wednesday; I'm going to tell him; then I will post a journal on it. :) This makes me feel loads and loads better.
    January 11th, 2010 at 02:28am
  • still waters;

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    v. Okay. I didn't mean that extreme. Hah. I guess I should have described that better, eh? I simply meant that a few years difference doesn't make a difference. (:
    January 10th, 2010 at 09:22pm
  • Aconitum

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    I agree with Rainbow Puke(hehe.) to a degee.
    I think that if the two people are so far out in age that one of their mother's went to school with their patner isn't right.
    January 10th, 2010 at 04:54pm
  • still waters;

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    Listen, hun. Age is but a number. It's okay if you like someone younger. You can't help it.

    But, trust me. Tell him. Sure, you may get rejected, but just think. What if you don't get rejected? What if he does like you back?

    Something similar happened to me. I like this guy. I mean, a lot. Like, more than ever before. And my friend actually went up to him without my consult and told him. I was really mad.. more at myself than her. But I was upset because I wanted to tell him. As it turns out, though, he said that he did like me. He just wasn't ready for a girlfriend right now. And he told me that there was definitely a chance in the future. That made me feel like I was on top of the world. Sure, we still aren't together yet, but I'm awfully sure (hope) he still feels the same way. At least he acts like he does.

    But, what I'm saying is, that there was a risk there. And it's mostly working out for the better for me. All because he knows. So if you tell him that you like him, things may work out for the better. You don't want to spend the rest of your life saying 'What if...?', now do you? (:

    Good luck! :]
    January 10th, 2010 at 04:40pm
  • wilson_

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    I agree with Sib; you should definately tell him how you feel, otherwise it will eat at you for ages if you don't do anything about it. I've liked a girl for quite a while and i told her how i felt, she was glad that i told and we talked about it for ages. This was on christmas day. I still can't get her out of my head, but knowing that she knows how i feel is much more settling that wondering "what could happen".

    -Ryan
    January 10th, 2010 at 01:18pm
  • Inked Art

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    Personally, I think you should tell him.
    Somehow.
    I know it's hard but you just gotta do it.
    Kinda makes me thankful I don't like anyone anymore but that quote summed up PERFECTLY how I felt about James.
    Tell him; subtly.
    It'll be better than looking back in 10 years thinking 'what if?' 'cause that will eat you up from the inside.
    Good luck.
    January 10th, 2010 at 12:31pm