Being a Girl Isn't Easy - Comments

  • iiMzNunu

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    bobanon:That's cool you think of it that way.
    HateonmeHater:Yes,they do.
    Gimmie Fuel:Do you have pictures of yourself?Yes,guys having their balls dropping sucks too.
    Criminal Mind:Yes,they do. Luckily I'm not experiencing it but have to see mother go through it all the time.-.-
    v.Good to know about you!
    June 28th, 2010 at 10:11pm
  • Insane Gravity

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    Being a girl isn't so great, but being a boy isn't either.
    Personally most of the stuff doesn't apply to me so maybe I am bias.
    <b>Period</b>:I am so fortunate to have a light and short period aha!
    I just have to get through the first day and I am home-free!
    Or that's the way I use to be, lately my emotions are acting stupid.
    Usually I am really nice and happy on my period but lately I get all sad or cranky(only with the cramps). It's actually really funny, and I would laugh if it was any other person. But on the bright side my friends treat me like a princess when they know I am on my period! Love them<3
    <b>Guy Problems</b>: I don't worry about guys because I am to preoccupied trying to survive a technical academy as a high school @.@ Yeah their are little crushes here an d there but it's nothing big. I have my whole life to meet the guy who will finally put me in my place xD
    <b>Acne</b> is gay but it goes away fast enough. I don't get it to bad but it never fails to suck when I do get a pimple.
    <b>Pregnancy and Diseases</b>: Don't have sex. Simple as that. Not saying you have to wait till marriage but if you are ready to have sex, you are ready to have a kid.
    <b>Attitude</b>:I am positive I would have they same attitude even if I was a guy. I like myself, even if I am a b*tch sometimes :D
    <b>Gaining Weight</b>: I have a medicl condition that produces a fast metabolism so it's really hard for me to gain weight, trust me I've tried. But all is not well guys, it sucks 'cause my immune system is shot to hell. Plus I have always gotten made fun of for being skinny. I've been called everything from anorexic to bulimic D:
    Truthfully I am a fat girl on the inside.
    Plus I have no booty! I'm glad I grew a chest though 'cause I am planning on breast feeding after I get preggo and I don't want my kid to starve because there is nothing there x.x!
    <b>Sensitivity</b>: I am sensitive, not gonna lie! But my personality makes up for it haha. It's okay to be sensitive, it's fun seeing boys panic over every little emotion!
    June 28th, 2010 at 07:49pm
  • moikay way.

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    Periods really suck.
    June 28th, 2010 at 06:02pm
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    1. No. Guys deal with this type of stuff too. Maybe not periods and pregnancy, but their balls drop.
    2. That I look like a guy. =P
    3. Err...I guess my hair. I like it (most of the time), but sometimes it makes me look like a poser scene boy when it doesn't straighten or style right. I'm not a boy, and I'm not scene either.
    June 28th, 2010 at 04:48pm
  • HateOnMeHater

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    Periods suck
    June 28th, 2010 at 09:47am
  • MeetMeInNeverland

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    1. Not really but some of it I do
    2.I dont really hate anything lol
    3. because we are just as good as guys
    June 28th, 2010 at 09:41am
  • iiMzNunu

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    v.Guys have it bad too. I know that. I agree with your friend on #3.
    June 28th, 2010 at 08:47am
  • dreamcatcher;

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    1. Most definitely. But guys have it pretty tough too.
    2. Periods. And all the other stuff you listed too haha!
    3. It's all just so annoying, and really like my friend said, I think she read it off the internet: "If men suddenly started getting periods, they'd turn over the world and universe searching for a cure for it!!"

    LUCKY, man I wish I hadn't gotten my period til I was 14 haha, I was 11 when I got mine like quartknee11 and I got mine Boxing Day, 2004 - the day of the Tsunami - it was like tsunami for me too....

    And A Change Of Pace. and everyone else talking about that. My friend didn't get her period til she was 17 and she's had 3 kids now, I wouldn't worry too much until you're about that age or if you have a family history in pregnancy problems :)
    June 28th, 2010 at 08:42am
  • iiMzNunu

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    RainGirlXD:I didn't sit but I didn't stand up either. I just kind of held myself up because I didn't want to waste toilet paper wrapping it around the ring.
    v.The question why was for answering #2. I know some boys can experience some things but not all. What don't you agree about the pregnancy? It's awesome to get pregnant but pain comes too with a lot of odd cravings. I'm happy being a girl but I hate when someone thinks being a certain gender is so easy.
    June 28th, 2010 at 08:14am
  • Ashuri Chan

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    I disagree with some of the pregancy stuff you said. And boy problems. Yes most girls deal with that alot, but if you know what you want in a guy. Most of the drama can be avoided. I think it can anyway. Guys can catch just about any sickness girl's can...even breat cancer.
    So to answer your three questions: No I don't agree with you on some of these things.
    So far I don't hate being a girl. I am not happy with myself, but it has nothing to do with my gender.
    Why what?
    June 28th, 2010 at 08:03am
  • XxNijinoDoreixX

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    Lol, yeah girls did that a lot in school and stuff, or like when they didn't want to sit on the toilet...but I just didn't understand why they didn't put a bunch of toilet paper in a ring around the seat....it was just so uuuuugggh disgusting....lol
    June 28th, 2010 at 07:31am
  • iiMzNunu

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    RaingirlXD:You knew girls who did that?
    almost gay.:It can be beautiful to have children but painful because mothers always speak about the pain.
    v.That sucks BIG TIME!
    June 28th, 2010 at 07:27am
  • The Walrus

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    1. Kinda. I mean, the only ones I agree with are pregnancy and periods. Really, guys can have all the other problems. And then there are the guys that PMS worse than we do when they're on their man-period.
    2. Being underestimated when it comes to my love/knowledge of sports. But that's it.
    3. I know more than most guys down here do about hockey. They treat me like an idiot when I could own them in any conversation. It irks me.
    June 28th, 2010 at 07:14am
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    I only really agree with number one.

    I think pregnancy can be a beautiful thing. If a girl gets raped, maybe not so much... but having a child come from you, that you can love and cherish would be wonderful. I mean, I'm not gonna go out and have a kid right now... but I want one someday. :)
    June 28th, 2010 at 07:12am
  • XxNijinoDoreixX

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    Lol, yeah I knew some girls who use to pee standing up. To me that was just disgusting, I don't know, it makes me think of drunk off their a** girls....but if I were a guy I'd love that :D
    June 28th, 2010 at 07:10am
  • iiMzNunu

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    v.You're making me laugh my butt off right now. Yes,girls can pee standing up but they're going to miss the toilet and that's very unlady like. It sounds cool though. Imagine us girls could pee that way!
    June 28th, 2010 at 07:00am
  • XxNijinoDoreixX

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    1. I agree with you somewhat, I mean my period is horrible, the cramps that is. I'm always in the bathroom throwing up for the first two days. (SUCKS). While, I agree with Miss Authoress, about the sensitivity, sometimes, it seems that we women just are. About the rape and molestation, I wouldn't believe that if I were you. A LOT of boys have been molested, whom never talked about it. In fact, I have more guy friends who have gone through it in childhood over girl friends. Also, boy problems, can become girl problems just as easily. I think that men have quite a bit of problems dealing with women, they may not talk about them as much, but they do occur. I'd like to also add, Pregnancy, yes it is mainly something that women go through on their own, but it can add just as much stress on the men. I actually had a close friend who was married and his wife got pregnant, and he ended up commiting suicide shortly after the baby was born. It was really just too much for him.
    The disease thing, well to be honest, diseases for women sexually can be a bit worse. We for one can't see inside ourselves, so we don't know right away if something is wrong, we catch them easier, because men can just take care of themselves easier. It's kind of gross to explain but men truly are luckier when it comes to the disease problem, although no one is lucky to have a std. Also, men generally are carriers, and they can have no symptoms, but spread it to a woman. It can be vise versa, but generally it happens to males.
    Attitudes. I don't think that's really true. Men have them just as much, but around women, they tend to hide them because...we'll they're attracted to them. Around their friends though, you'll commonly hear, damn dude are you on your period?
    Acne and gaining weight happen no matter your gender hun. I know guys who struggle with this just as much, and yes it bothers them just as much. They have just as low self esteem as a girl with these issues.

    2. My least favorite part about being a girl is my period, or the fact that you can't pee standing up!

    3. :) Well the period part just sucks no matter how you look at it, especially with my monster horrible cramps. The peeing part, well I suppose you could, but that wouldn't be very lady like. That always seemed so fun to me lol....
    June 28th, 2010 at 06:59am
  • iiMzNunu

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    Miss Authoress:I have to agree with you about love being a girl and that we have power and we get credit.
    so sedated.:I've heard and that's cool you like being a girl. I love being a girl but I hate these things that happen sometimes. Some other girls hate it as well.
    v.Why do they have to keep this stuff inside? I like guys to express themselves too. Some guys just won't do that.
    June 28th, 2010 at 06:52am
  • MyWorstNightmare

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    wow way out of line except for periods guys are the same and they just hide stuff cause they are "supposed to" take a chill
    June 28th, 2010 at 06:51am
  • so sedated.

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    Do you agree with me?
    Erm. Not really, guys deal with the exact same stuff we do about 95% of the time, and sometimes their stuff to deal with is worse than ours. You can't really say guys don't have it as bad as us, when in reality we are basically dealing with the same stuff - especially in teenage years, we all go through just about the same thing.

    What do you hate about being a girl?
    Nothing really. I quite like enjoy being a girl. Other than getting my period I hate getting it.

    Why?
    Erm... because I do. And getting your period is fucking hell.
    June 28th, 2010 at 06:46am