I hate how I build up my self confidence just to have it crushed with one sweeping blow. - Comments

Okay, so Jade's your twin? So your friendship's set for life, chickee. TWO, I read this and I think you need to think about life BEFORE Tomi- you were beautiful. You and Jade had the same life. And now what I think you need to do is take the same steps he took to get yourself to where you want to be- which is where you still are. Even if you love him, which I know you do, don't make him be the one to decide whether you're beautiful or not, and who gives a good rats @$$ about that? I mean, come on! I think you just need to know that anyone can build up inner stregnth and confidence, but I don't think you need to- you and Jade are friends because the both of you are SO much stronger than you know. Take it from a girl on the other side of the window looking in.

Love and rockets,
Allison.

http://poem.mibba.com/188133/You-Are-Beautiful <----- An answer to one of your questions.

little brother of yuuka: i completely understand how that would feel i had a gf who was the same with me

BananaPancakes: hit the nail on the head.

Most guys prefer it shaved.. But yes, if you go through with it, he has to too. To be honest, I don't even look at down there when I'm with a guy because well.. I don't mind doing stuff but staring at it aint for me. >_>

I've shaved, but I put it off now and then because it scares the bejebus out of me when I go down there with a razor. I'm just accident prone but even so, it's fine. I'm not with anyone at the moment though, so I don't bother.

You need to first of all, not let that comment hurt you in any way, shape, or form and second of all think about why he wants you to do it. I'm highly doubting that your boyfriend finds you unattractive, he's been with you for 9 months. He obviously wants to be more sexual down there, and not to be too WHOA but it might in a way be more intimate for him if you do because clearly he likes girls without. Many guys do, and many guys have asked for it. It's in human nature to have hair down there so don't feel ugly or anything because you have it. He didn't mean to hurt you and I'm pretty sure that he'd never want you to lose your confidence over a stupid favor.

Just to bug him, tell him to do his and see his reaction. I bet he'd be appalled. Then he'd know how you felt.

Don't be upset, find a way to make it work and love yourself for you. :3
Everyone is beautiful.

D:<
That is sooo mean. DD:
Why don't you talk to him?
I mean, its afterall your body, not his.
I don't know if he's the right guy for you, yeah...

How you keep your body isnt up to him...
Nothing is wrong with you....He's just being a guy...
Dont doubt anything about yourself....