I hooked up with my best guy friend. WHAT DO I DO? D: - Comments

  • Jinxeh

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    It's a two-way street. You don't want to make out with him anymore, then...don't. Next time you see him, if he tries to make a move again just stop him and reinforce your belief that you just want to be friends. If he can't respect that, you may have to evaluate how he fits into your life after all.
    August 23rd, 2010 at 09:45pm
  • WTFMusicPerson

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    Id say just be cuddy buddies make it obvious you dont want anyone else right now but that you want to be free when school starts and no attachments. Talk about it see fi you both could handle it some people just cant hang with cuddy buddies.

    And PS when a guy likes you even if he says he doesn't there will always be that small flame ready to blaze, unless some other girl can come along and steal that light.
    August 23rd, 2010 at 07:52pm
  • Pantera

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    If you really like him, I say go for it, what's the worst that can happen? (Actually, don't answer that... ha.)
    I'd listen to what hopes anchor says as well. My best friend liked this guy, and she put of telling him, and he got with another girl. And that sucked for her.
    I love your icon by the way. Cradle of Filth are amazing.
    August 23rd, 2010 at 07:21pm
  • hopes anchor

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    Just don't put it off too long.
    I liked one of my friend who liked me, but by the time I realized I wanted to be with him, he'd moved on
    August 23rd, 2010 at 07:05pm
  • nicksantino.

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    loll thanks :). We were supposed to talk it out yesterday but of course that never happened..
    August 23rd, 2010 at 07:00pm
  • hopes anchor

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    Don't not be with him just because you're leaving for college.
    And, if you have feelings for the guy, embrace it.
    I mean, you've been friends, and you know he's there for you.
    You know him.
    But, if you really just don't want to be with him, then don't do it just because he does.
    You do need to sit down and hammer it out with him, though
    August 23rd, 2010 at 06:57pm