I had a bad day, Mibba - Comments

You're not a failure because of those things. Those are the exact things my mom tells me I'm a failure for, and I know I'm not a failure. I'm skipping a year between highschool and college because I'm going to college with my best friend, who's a senior right now, and I don't want to be a grade ahead of her. I don't think I'd be very good at living by myself so we're going to be living together. My mom's always telling me I'm not going to go to college, that people who take gap years generally don't. But it's not because I don't want to go to college. I'm one of the few people who take a gap year and fully plan on going to college the next year and actually do. Most people just keep taking gap years until they're working at McD's, but I'm not like that. Everyone who knows me knows I'll be heading off to college next year.

Also applied for countless jobs, and my mom's taking away my texting and eventually my Internet because I don't have one. No problem since I can just go on the admin account and restore my Internet times, so I'm not worried about that. I'll be gone by February so she won't be able to touch me after that. (February 1 is my 18th birthday and I'm moving in with my dad for six months until I go to college with Best Friend.)

I'm a Christian and you just have to weed out the ones that think they know everything because they found Jesus. He doesn't have the right to judge you. God teaches us to be loving and accepting of everyone. I hate it when people think that Christians are know-it-alls because some of them think they're better than everybody else. That's not how it's supposed to be. So yeah, don't judge Christians just by what he does because he's got it wrong. :/

You're not a failure.

I've had a bad day, too, honey :/
We all have them, it's better to try and forget about it when tomorrow comes.

exactly. sigh. lol

Well I guess bright side is he doesn't have any room to judge you about you life and choices since he can't do the simplest of things while he is still at home.

I know, they used to put up a fight. I think that they've tried for so long that they are just too tired to fight with him anymore. So i do it for them. I'll probably clean up before i go to bed.

Well I am not trying to judge or be rude, but that to me is just not an excuse. They are parents and need to try harder. That is their house, they are the ones paying for it! They are just babying him and I would think if I was a parent and had to get up that early to clean up only to have it get messy again, I would be just pissed off and rise all hell!

Because they don't listen. They've tried. I mean my dad has like 2 days off a week. He gets up at the crack of dawn to clean the living room and they dont even have enough respect to keep it clean. im not the neatest person but at least my mess is confined to my room where no one can see it.

Yeah you're right I don't understand. Why are you parents not putting their foot down and are just allowing them to treat the house like a hotel?

No you don't understand my brothers do not clean up after themselves. I cleaned off the table this morning by the time i got up it looked worse that it did before i cleaned it. They dont know how to put things away they leave all their clothes in the living room. use a new cup everytime they get a drink and leave the old one where ever they want. they leave food out and their clothes in the bathroom after they shower. they dont do their own laundry and they don't feel themselves and on the off chance they do, they leave a giant mess for someone else to clean up. My father couldn't take it anymore and since my bf's birthday is coming up he said he's give me money for it. we arent rich but the amount of crap i put up with it's worth it.

Wow 50 bucks a week? What are yall rich? Lucky! Well I wouldn't feel comfortable taking any amount of money from anyone, but that's just me.

Exactly. but he can't get one because he devotes all his time to church. I mean the damn kid doesn't even clean up after himself when he takes a shower in the morning! He is 17 years old. he is capable of that.

My parents have been really nice and are paying me 50 a week to help my mommy clean because my brothers don't do shit. until i can get a job/

Yeah then you need to tell him to shut up the next time he wants to bring up jobs. Espiecally since he is old enough to get one himself!

No he doesn't he cant even make himself a damn sandwich.

Does he have a job? Because if he doesn't then he really doesn't need to be running his mouth. And don't worry about college, my dad always tells me that if I don't want to go I don't have to and that there are other things I can do without it. Honestly i don't believe him since it is hard enough as it is with a college degree to get a job....I'm not really looking forward to the spring semester though,

I have been checking. I have to call though because I don't have my license. I mean my mom wouldn't mind taking me but I don't want to bother her.

No, I don't want to college. There's really no point for me. Maybe in the furture but not right now.

He was ridiculous he was screaming at me and calling me all kinds of names and saying it's all because he cares. what he doesn't understand was everything he was attacking me with i have discussed with my parents. And he told me that I'm stupid for wanting to marry my boyfriend ebcause we are younge. my mother got mad at that and told him to shut up because she knew she'd marry my father when she was nine aha.

He's so condescending and mean and it was so unnecessary. He thinks he's making something of himself because he's devoting himself to God and that my life wont be complete until I do the same. he said that, seriously.

That sucks, I'm so glad my sister is away at college and staying on campus so I don't have to hear her mouth about college. Anyways when it comes to a job you have to go back and check the status of your app, don't take that line they give you saying they will call you if they are interested. If you make an effort and go back in person they will see how determined you are. Plus my mom always tells me to dress nicly when I go to see them. So that helps too.

You're not going to college? I kind of don't want to go either since I hated grade school so much, but my love for anime and my stories are the only things that will make me bare it. Though I did at one point decide not to go, but I was a freshmen in high school.

And that fail at living on your own. That was a dumb reason he gave! What he didn't have anything to back it up with? Like seriously! At least you are not lazy and at least you can clean up after yourself.

Don't pay him no mind, My sister thinks since she is taking some vet labs, she knows everything about being a vet. That's people for ya. Anyways if you want to put him in his place....well no that would downright mean so nevermind. Just ignore him.