I have a boyfriend, but I'm only 13. (Anyone has any advice?) - Comments

  • jasmin;

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    okay, i have good advice on this one..
    October 18th, 2010 at 02:34pm
  • fascination.

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    you obviously like this guy, so dont deny your feelings
    but dont do anything you dont want to do, please dont
    its a big mistake and your feel horrible afterward
    its just a big no-no. Do what your comfortabe with only.
    good luck :]
    October 18th, 2010 at 12:22pm
  • DeleteMe12

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    As everyone else has said, don't ever let a guy pressure you into something you don't want to do. If going to that friends house to make-out on his bed doesn't appeal or seem like a good idea to you, don't do it.
    Being a so called 'good girl' isn't a bad thing.

    I know it's hard, but talking to him about how you feel would probably help.
    Hope this helps, and good luck :)
    October 18th, 2010 at 11:48am
  • Screw Formality.

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    Okay so like, you are lucky to have one. I'm still working on this one guy who.. well let's just say he's shy. But i do totally understand this situation, And with Men it's two main issues you have to work with.
    -His mates are probably telling him what they've done which is sending some sort of chain reaction which makes him think that he can do it with you. It's the bro code.
    -It can also be a power issue, he's what fourteen? he's got raging hormones and he isn't smart enough to control them. Not saying he's dumb. I'm just saying all men think with their penis.
    So don't ever get pressured to do 'it'.
    October 18th, 2010 at 11:03am
  • Worthless_Words

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    Don't let him pressure you. Tell him out right that your not ready for that sort of stuff.

    If he really likes you he shouldn't pressure you. You should tell him that.

    Anyway good luck! I know my advice isn't that helpful but its better than nothing right? :)
    October 18th, 2010 at 09:28am