Hey! Bubbles: I am a size 11/'12 and dang proud. So don't let people get you down. :] And I wear my skinny jeans proudly.
I've always been on the chunky side. No, I'm not a stick, but I am healthy weight for my height and age. Do what I did:
I took a marker, and wrote on my mirror. It says You're beautiful and strong. Don't ever let anyone bring you down. And I also wrote out two lists and stuck them next to the mirror. One list is things I like about myself, and the other is my bucket/goal list.
Bubbles- I hate when people ask me my size. Because all my friend's are like, "One, three, zero..." and I'm way bigger than all of them. But you should have punched your friend. I would have.(:
Shadow- I hope so. I just get depressed easily.
Chasing- Exactly. Sometimes, when I'm alone, I'll be confident and all, then I go to school and it fades away. Thanks for the hug.(;
I have the same problem! I feel fat, I don't think I'm the prettiest girl in the world, or the ugliest. Some times my self esteem is great, and then some b*tch'll ruin it for me! :O So, I feel your pain on this situation.
You are beautiful, and you don't need to change for anyone or anything :) *Hugs* Always remember that.
I know how you feel with the insecurities. My own issues have never been the same, as I've always been considered 'skinny' but that doesn't change how I feel about myself. I know how it feels think that way, and look at all the girls that are 00 and whatever, but you'll be fine :)
I have the same problem. :( I'm always so insecure about about myself, and weight. Just recently, my friend asked me what size jeans I wear. I said size 9. She laughed. After that, I refuse to look in the mirror...... I feel your pain. :(