Virginity + Questions - Comments

1: I have been pressured before. Even after I lost it I've been pressured into doing things. I only gave it away because it wad with someone I thought was my best friend and loved me. But that wasn't what he thought. And after it was a horrible feeling, it's a very special thing, something you should treasure.
2: full of druggies, sluts, annoying kids, and that select few that I love [including you :3]
3: phobia being abondoned, it is the worst feeling ever. Dealt with it my whole life.
Becoming like my parents, high risks is the scary part
Spiders heights being surrounded by people and I know no one.
4: yes
5: a few people

1. Yes, by many boys.
2. Full of sluts. Annoying. I hate my school.
3. I have many.
4. Yes.
5. A lot of people.

1. I don't think I've been. My ex never put much pressure on me to lose it because he was cheating on me, my boyfriend now wants to make sure I'm ready. It'll been up to me.

2. Well my school is a drop out prevention school or an alternative school so it's full of druggies, pregnant people, and fake gangsters. But we actually all talk to each other but that's because we only have 135 people in the school. (We're not a small town just not many people go to this school since it is a drop out prevention school)

3. Bugs any kind of bug and heights.

4. I'm an okay listener. I can't help you with your problems but I'll listen to them

5. I don't know to be honest.

1.Yes. My ex. Thas why he's my ex.
2. Worse thanyours I'm sure.
3.Fear of loneliness. And doctors.
4. Yes and no. Only for certian people.
5. My little sister

1. No, I've never been pressured to lose my virginity. I guess my school isn't as tough as yours; it's the non-virgins who are usually held in lower esteem than the virgins.
2. My high school has a lot of heavy drinkers and there are some druggies, too. Since I'm not really friends with any "loose" girls, I don't know what percentage of our student body is non-virgin. But I know that we've had some pregnancies and stuff. A lot of the girls dress like sluts, especially on Homecoming Day. And there's a lot of cheating.
3. I used to have pretty bad Emetophobia (fear of throwing up) for about five years (to the point of fearing, for no reason, I would throw up when I woke up in the middle of the night and panicking and running around in circles in my room), but I don't think it's as bad anymore. I have Entomophobia, and a lot of other people do, too. You're definitely not alone on that one =)
4. I think I'm a fairly good listener; I don't usually interrupt or act like I don't care. But when my mom is talking to me in the car, I'm usually totally zoned out and daydreaming.
5. I don't think I currently know anyone like that, but I used to. When I was in sixth grade, I sat with this one seventh-grader who just wouldn't shut up or let me talk. And she got mad when I didn't agree with her. Whenever I was talking, she would seem to want me to hurry up so she could resume speaking. The friends I currently have aren't like that, luckily.

You don't sound like a "messed up" person to me! But I do think you should get help for your depression; it's not good for you to live with it. And being a virgin isn't a bad thing at all, in my opinion. If people are judging you for it, that's their problem, not yours.
I looked at your photos in your profile, and I think you're very pretty. =)

Questions.
1.Nopeee (:
2.Unbelievable,
3.Yes, dogs -_-
4.Depends on the subject
5.My mother when she thinks she is right when she isnt.

1. Yup =.= Thankfully I never gave in :D
2. It's all good, but my grade sucks. We're the high school cliche of cliques, and it's annoying.
3. Clowns and spiders.
4. I've been told I am. :]
5. My mom, my dad and some of my friends.

And I've gotta agree with Bella of Locksley.. I play more video games than my three brothers. :D

if you'd like to talk about your problems you can message me (:

Personally, your 14, wait till it is something special or just wait till your older.
Sex isn't something to rush into there is a lot of emotion afterwards. (At least for me there was and I was 17)

Those things don't have much to do with it.

Yeah, haha.
My friend, who is by the way a boy.
Tells me I'm more of a boy than him.
But maybe that's because he watches America's Next Top Model While I kick ass on Call of Duty.
It's a odd cycle.

1. Nope.
2. It was fair enough.
3. Sharks, clowns, tight spaces.
4. Yes.
5. From time to time my mother. But it's gotten better.

Liking a videogame or computer game doesn't mean you've got too many* boy-like qualities. I LOVE them.