Does anybody know the easiest way to say goodbye? ll Help please? - Comments

  • Okay, sounds like a plan! I'm actually gonna sign off so I'll shoot you a message tmoro. Goodnight :)
    June 20th, 2011 at 05:20am
  • v. Okies! :3 I'm pretty exhausted too and should by all rights be studying now, not sitting on Mibba.
    But definitely message/comment me whenever you feel like it and I'll get back to you after class.
    June 20th, 2011 at 05:15am
  • v. Thank you, I appreciate any form of help <3 Haha, no it's not creepy at all. I always tell people I'm here to talk if they need me. At least I hope it's not creepy cuz if it is I'm a major creep lol. Thanks for the comment, and I might just take you up on that offer tomorrow because I'm exhausted right now :P
    June 20th, 2011 at 05:12am
  • HI!
    I'm creeping your jouranl because I clicked on it and read it and thought I should tell you that the same thing happened to me.

    When you genuinely love someone but have to break up with them, it's extremely hard. You feel like a part of you is missing when they're not around and because of that, you want to keep them around in any way they are willing to offer.

    And while keeping him as a friend might seem "do-able" or "healthy", it isn't. It's just going to make you unhappy because you're always going to wish things could be the way they were.

    I don't have any advice on the good-bye part, per se, but the best advice I ever got was from one of my best friends, and that was to get rid of anything and everything that reminds you of him. Delete his number. Block him on Facebook so he doesn't pop up inadvertantly in a stream somewhere.

    Try to hang out with your other friends or meet new people.

    I know it hurts alot, and I can't guarantee that this will fix anything 100%, but I hope at least some of it helps/made you feel better. =)

    And I know we don't really know each other, but I'm always willing to talk, if you want. =)
    (I hope that's not creppy sounding. O.o
    It isn't, is it?)
    June 20th, 2011 at 04:55am