Am I going about this the wrong way? - Comments

Lante- It's okay, I understand what you meant. Yeah, I know what you mean. I'm tired of putting in all this effort and her just disregarding it yet saying "We have to hang out soon though!" She's said that so many times and we never hang out. Something always comes up :/

The Lante Express- Yeah, they are always eneveloped in each other and most of our friends notice but I'm one of the only few who hasn't said anything to them about it. When I ask him why he invited her without asking me first, he got all annoyed and responded like he had a right to invite her on his own whim. I might just tell him not to bother coming if he's not going to be able to handle a day without his girlfriend on his arm. That really bothers me, we've been friends for so long and every time he gets a new girl, its head over heels and each time, it blows up in his face.
And about my other friend probably not going, I know she most likely isn't going to show up. I think I'm just not going to put in the effort to come up with plans anymore because she always backs out last second and I'm sick of it. Yeah, my mom and I don't get along well so while it isn't likely to happen, getting closer would help things

I know that feeling because I am in the same boat right now and I am currently trying to figure out if this friendship is even worth it. But we only known each other since 9th grade and graduated last year so we don't see much of each other now and days and I apparently put in most of the work. Well at your your family doesn't dislike him like my friend's grandma dislikes me....for stupid reasons.

And typo I meant to say *he not she about the meeting family part.

Awww thanks, yeah, I don't want any tension because he's my best friend and we've known each other for pretty much our whole lives. But, he get's absorbed into his gfs so fast. I'm happy for them really, but I don't enjoy my best friend being obsessed with his gf all the time :/ I and our other friends, feel left out.

Honestly he really shouldn't go if they are jointed at the hip to the point they kiss ninety seven percent of the time. If he never met your cousin why would she bring someone who has I am assuming never met your family? Chances are Shelby isn't going anyways if she has a history of blowing you off at the last minute. But it wouldn't hurt to try and get close to your mom's side of the family. who knows it might help you be closer to her.

v. He didn't even have the right to have an attitude, lol. You're the one who would've had all the right in the world to be snippy with him. I think what you told him was a very nice way to end his little "dilemna". But in his place, I would've chosen the friend instead of the girlfriend I'm around all the time. :/

I'm glad I helped. :D <3

Ava Marie- Awww thank you <3 I try to be tolerant as much as possible but I wasn't sure if I was being too firm about this or not. I love that word lol but yeah, after he sent me a few ims with an attitude almost getting mad at me, I said something along the lines of "Well, if you rather hang out with her on Saturday, then fine. I don't care" because I really didn't appreciate him trying to guilt me into this. They are always with each other and I'm not the only one who is uneasy about it. I'm just the only one who doesn't say anything about it :/

Thank you <3 You're always such a sweet person. You did help, thank you!

You are not in the wrong here. Not at all. You're a very nice and tolerant person. Where as most people would've either asked him either a.) not to bring her or b.) just not to come at all, you compromised with him. I believe he's being incredibly difficult if not selfish. He should've asked you before inviting her. As for getting snarky with you? (word reminds me of shark, lol) that is where I would've drawn the line and just been like, "you don't even have to go."

I really do hope this situation clears up for you and everything works out. <33I don't think I helped at all, aha. </3 ):