Tom Felton and Jade Olivia - Comments

totally understandable. happened to me as well. my sister says it's bc we get so wrapped up in the world we've created that the emotions with in out fictional world we've created become the emotions we feel in reality. in other words i guess it just means we are attached to our fantasy more than we are our reality. when our minds come back to reality it seriously can be heart wrenching.

I know exactly how you feel. I didn't know he called her his soulmate? I guess I do now D: -sigh- I've seen pictures of them together where they're like gazing into each others eyes and they look so... happy. Even though I wish Tom was mine lol as long as he's happy -shrugs- that's really all that matters, I guess. (:

I'm so jealous!

I honestly cannot remember the last time I got a crush on a celebrity. o.o However, the person I like was in a relationship, and I feel super awful for this, but I was kind of happy when they split up. I never actually said anything to them about it, just celebrated in my head a little. And I feel like a horrible person fordoing so.

I don't think you're over-reacting at all. It's normal to feel some disappointment when someone you like is with someone else. Nothing wrong with your feelings, dearie. :)

I've felt that before -- and I wouldn't necessarily say it's over reacting, because, over reacting, to me, would be sending her hate mail and completely bashing her in you journal -- which I don't suggest doing, because that's immature.

But, regardless if a person is a celebrity or someone you know at school, if you like that person, even slightly romantically, it's going to hurt somewhat when you find out they're with someone else. I wouldn't suggest letting it stop you from living your life, or giving up hope in finding love, because that would be over reacting.

But a small disappointment is perfectly okay -- because like I said, celebrities are people, too, and them being people, you can have feelings for them. So it's perfectly understandable. Well, at least, I understand it, because I still think the best of people, regardless of who they are, until they do something seriously wrong, you know?

I think I covered my points above... I feel like I'm missing something, though, but in any sort. You're not over reacting, you're reacting, but not overly. If you were, this journal would have been about bashing her and you crying your eyes out about how he'll never be yours, despite the fact you don't know him personally.

And I have seen people do that, and it's very... scary. So, luckily, and thank goodness, you have control over yourself, you know?

Sometimes I feel like it's harder to write fanfiction when the real person develops a relationship (or I become aware of it), because I feel like it undermines the world I've created. If that makes sense.