vv. I don't see how it can just be a coincidence... I mean, that entire first chapter is almost like she copied and pasted yours and then substituted all of the words with synonyms. And, you're right, the main's character's name is alluding to yours, too.
This has actualy hapened to me several times. Both times I just commented the story saying that I liked it, but that it seemed quite similar to my own story, never accusing them, just pointing out the similarities. If you don't mind, could I also have a link to the story, so I can check it out? (:
Okay, so I read both of the first chapters, and that's bullshit. I'd completely call that plagiarism and I believe you'd have every right to report that story.
And you seem to be taking this all pretty well so maybe you should try talking to the writter of this story even though it seems and is almost like yours it could just be some freaky coincedent so before you start thinking plagrizim maybe talking to this other person would be best unless you like know for a fact that they've read your story