No offense, but guys suck. - Comments

  • Lady.Orion

    Lady.Orion (100)

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    Simple. Think really hard about what he has done for you or if he's had any input on your life. I'm serious. ''Was he there for you when so and so happened?'' ''Does he remember something you once said to him a fairly long time ago?'' ''do you have any special moments or activities that's sort of 'your thing'?''

    Ask yourself and be honest.

    Then you decide from there. If no, you forget about him and act as if he doesn't make you a happy mess of nerves or whatever. & don't think about any ''what if"s. ;]
    November 15th, 2011 at 03:17pm
  • mistresseulalie.

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    Amora- Yeah, I just don't want to talk to him ever again.
    November 15th, 2011 at 05:33am
  • young and insane;

    young and insane; (100)

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    1. How to forget about a guy;
    You start by getting rid of all his stuff, everything that reminds you of him.
    Delete him off of Facebook (if you have one.) Delete him out of your phone,
    get rid of ANYTHING and EVERYTHING that reminds you of him.
    2. How to stop letting him back in your life;
    Babe, You're going to have to be strong. I have been through this so many times,
    but you CAN stop letting him back into your life. You ARE capable of it.
    No matter what he does, if he trys to get all over you, if he makes you jealous,
    if he sends you stuff, if he talks to your friends, ANYTHING, don't respond.
    If he gets all over you or talks to you, Tell him to leave you alone. That you're done.
    AND STAY STRONG. because as SOON as you give into him again, he will know that
    you AREN'T done, and he CAN control you. No one needs this. It WILL be
    hard, You WILL want to give in. You WILL think about him, and get sad about it.
    But remember, that it's only making YOU stronger. and think about the person
    worth waiting for, that will come along and treat you right. You will realize how
    much of an asshole he is.
    3. how to hurt him back;
    You WILL be hurting him when you reject him, and grow stronger than him.
    When you stop giving into him, when you stop letting him play with you, control you
    like that. It will hurt him even more when he sees you have found someone
    better than him, and he's going to wish he treated you right.
    November 15th, 2011 at 05:28am
  • AmorarEsDeVivir

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    Make sure he knows what you want and what you're willing to stand for. In my experience, once you tell him where you stand, it'll be easier to hold your ground on that, and he'll know what you want and that you're serious.
    November 15th, 2011 at 05:26am
  • Isadora Pierce

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    You really don't forget. You just have to drop the pieces and stop trying to fix them. Move on. Maybe you can remember good times with him but he sounds like he doesn't even want to be dating you. He also sounds immature. And immature boys are not good boyfriends! Don't hurt him back, but be honest, and tell him that you're tired of him not knowing what the fuck he wants. If he can't handle the truth, he can't handle you, or a relationship.
    November 15th, 2011 at 05:26am
  • mistresseulalie.

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    v. I know. Hahaha, oh well. You're right, he really isn't worth it. At all.
    November 15th, 2011 at 05:25am
  • AmorarEsDeVivir

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    v Oh, honey, if he's not even willing to tell people about you, he's definitely not worth it, believe me. If he's really that into you he'll want to show you off.

    Find someone who treats you right. It'll be worth waiting for.
    November 15th, 2011 at 05:22am
  • mistresseulalie.

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    Oooh, and I forgot to add it was a secret thing. No one knew about it. =( So that makes it hella worst.
    November 15th, 2011 at 05:21am
  • Neche Narcissist

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    1. How do you just forget about a guy?
    Uh just do -shrug-
    2. How do I just stop letting him in my life?
    Uh just stop. Not that hard.
    3. How do I hurt him back, or do I even need to?
    If you don't know how or can't even forget about him you shouldn't try hurting him back bcuz u don't know how :/
    No offense.
    November 15th, 2011 at 05:20am
  • AmorarEsDeVivir

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    You don't need to hurt him back. Just be upfront with him. Tell him that you're not going to be his yo-yo and the next decision he makes better be for real because you deserve better. And then stick to your guns. Because you DO deserve better than someone who's going to be all back-and-forth with you like that. If he truly loved you, he wouldn't feel weird being with you.

    Maybe you guys should try something more casual before jumping into love. And if he's going to go the all-or-nothing route and then filp-flop, then he's going to end up with nothing and/or you're going to end up with a broken heart which just isn't fair.
    November 15th, 2011 at 05:19am
  • Grace Dunne

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    1. You don't. They sit in your memory and fester for years.
    2. You just.. do. Especially if he's bad for you.
    3. You don't need to. It won't work anyways.. No matter how much you want to.
    November 15th, 2011 at 05:19am