What should I do? Help, please. - Comments

Okay, after listening to what the people of Mibba think - along with my friends from school - I will be going to the hospital.
Thanks for the help. :)

A Chickadee In Love
That's what I was thinking. Maybe writing a little note, or drawing something for the family and just go to the hospital.
My grandpa would love to see me more than the family...

La Kenton La Spres
Saying sorry isn't my only reason to go to the mortuary. It's also because I'm friends with his sister, and I know she's going to take it bad. My sisters and nieces are going to be there, probably crying their eyes out. I was also starting to become friends with him, again.

But at the moment I am leaning more towards going to see my grandpa, simply because he's my family. Family should always come first.

Go to the hospital. If the little boy's in heaven or where ever, he would understand. Maybe send some flowers with your mum? A letter maybe? (It's been years since I've gone to a funeral, I don't know if most people leave letters or if it's just my family..) But I wouldd definitely go see your grandpa. He's the one whose going to benefit from it, not a dead boy.

That is selfish on their parts that you have to chose one or the other. Why can't they both just go to each and stay there for a while? That makes no sense and Flesh I don't think she can do both seeing as her parents are going to one or the other, I doubt if she goes to one then that parent will take her to the other.

I honestly don't know what to tell you, but me personally I would go see my grandpa only because he is family and the way I see it is yeah sure sometime we are not nice to people when they are alive but to me going to see them after they are dead...it's like you're not going for them, you're going for you so you can make yourself feel better.

I've already talked to my parents about that, but my mom said that she couldn't go up to the hospital because she's sick. (because of the treatment she can't be around my grandpa.)
Thanks for trying to help, though. :)

Stay at the mortuary for a little while than leave to go to the hospital?