I've really lost her, didn't I? - Comments

  • That's tough! :/
    I know how you feel by losing a friend. I, myself, had a very close friend since pre school but somehow in 8th grade we drifted apart. I literally saw her change in front of me and I can't say for the better. I couldn't even DO something about it because she just walked further away from me. It hurts to be shut out by someone but it hurts even more when that someone used to play a huge part in your world. Now, we don't even talk to each other. We're not on a hating faze though, just two strangers. That is what we have become. Sad, isn't it?

    I don't know. Maybe you should try talking to her separately? Like, when nobody else is around her? I mean, you can't literally shut someone out from one day to another. Maybe there is some sort of misunderstanding? Don't lose hope too soon.

    But then again, when it doesn't work out maybe you should just let it be? Sorry, I know it is kind of.. blah to say things like that but sometimes letting go isn't a bad thing, you know? She will forever has a spot in your heart and someone who you once shared great moments with, this is a fact that won't change!
    I experimented it myself, even though I lost one close friend I also gained friends with progress. Just let her know how you feel, at least you tried in the end, right?
    Every kind of relationship relies on more than just one! One person can't make it work, it takes two. At least in my opinion. Good Luck! :)
    March 18th, 2012 at 01:08pm