I'm Jealous of My Boyfriend's Past - Comments

My situation is reversed. I've had a lot of sexual experience and my boyfriend had next to none when we met. I would hope my boyfriend wouldn't hold my past sexual experiences that occurred before I even knew he existed against me. And I know he doesn't. Neither of us are really jealous people, but when we were talking about three ways I got a little ... iffy thinking about him having sex with another girl. It's not a jealousy thing; it's a 'I like being the only girl' he's slept with sorta thing.

Obviously, that is no longer an issue since we're sleeping with other people for the next week.

I don't have this problem because I was my boyfriend's first, but it's really upsetting when I hear of his ex girlfriends too. He's one of those guys that would drop the 'L' bomb too soon. So it bothers me because I'm always curious whether or not he actually means it when he says 'i love you' because I know he's said it to his other 7 girlfriends. Granted him and I have been together for a year and a half (well, almost a couple of weeks away) and his other girlfriends only lasted for two weeks to a month.

I just try to remind myself that he's with me and not them. :)

I understand that. I'm jealous of my ex's past, jealous that other girls have had sex with him. It's even worse since we're just friends online...Anyway...

I keep trying to get them to stop.

I would get jelous if someone were to go into details about what my boyfriend has done. If I were you I would just tell your friend that you don't want to hear about it

I'm the same way, completely understandable. I think most people are like this, its just that a lot of us are afraid to admit it.