What people can't be mad? - Comments

I agree with Insanity's Artist and Airi.

Ok.

demure, I don't see why Degenerate HAS to say that what she did wasn't justified. What does it matter? They said what they wanted to say in their comment and its not your place to say, "Oh, we'll you should have said that or this if that's what you meant."

People won't 'get over' you using swears. It's against Mibba rules and guidelines, so you need to use correct grammar and spelling, no matter what time it is or how mad you are, and you need to censor swears.

v Oh yes it is! lol c:

v I hope that's a good thing. c:

vOnce again, Airi blows my mind with her words.

Now I have absolutely no idea what happened but I'll just put my two cents in anyway..... Even if someone is rude to you, it doesn't justify being rude back to them. Someone being rude to you doesn't justify you publicly calling them out and humiliating them in a journal. If you have a problem with a user, take it up with them via messaging or commenting them. If a user is being rude to you, report them to the admin. The admins will handle things, Kurtni and Audrey are both very active and friendly admins you can turn to when in need. Don't create journals calling out other users, that will only fuel the fire and it is against the rules, so it'll also get you in trouble. Whoever this person was, they're not worth getting yourself in trouble, are they? You decide.

We all feel anger, it's understandable to feel anger when someone has been rude to you and hurt you, but we all are responsible for how we react to things. Your actions are your own, you are responsible for allowing yourself to react in such a bad way towards someone who angered you. Instead of trying to hurt this person back, do something else to release your anger. Something that doesn't hurt you or others. People have their "moments", the important thing is to learn from your mistakes and not repeat them. The past is the past, we can't change it. Mistakes happen. Learn from the mistake you made and try not to repeat it again. If you don't see where you went wrong, look back on your actions and think about it for a while. You'll see it soon.

Anger is like a wildfire, it can burn wildly out of control so quickly. You need to learn to control your anger and not let it control you and get the best of you. Find good ways to get out your anger. Trust me, it'll really help. Venting on mibba is a good way to release anger, but remember that you still must follow the rules. Think of your actions before you do them.

That being said, I think it's good you apologized and have hopefully seen how your actions of calling another user out were wrong.

Wow. She really got to you, didn't she? I mean posting two journals about it... Why not be mature and message her? Or you could just do what your journal says and "forgive and forget". I'm sure the person you're writing about didn't mean to come off rude.

Also, if you're going to make a journal about it...Why not wait until a reasonable time when you will be awake enough to use proper wording, punctuation, grammar and spelling? I'm honestly just asking.

Oh, yeah. Sorry. You might not of heard of it: it's called empathy.

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I only dish out what I receive. Night.

v Then mention that you understand how she feels, and that you understand that she was just upset; but this is not the right way to go about it. That's all I'm saying.

Can't handle reactions that aren't scripted? Avoid it. The end.

I see you added that extra part at the last minute because you realized you didn't sound rude enough maybe? Congrats.

I never said what she did was justified, I just said that people do act like they hold some sort of position in high authority on here and it gets under the skin. It's just a website jc.

Can't handle reactions that aren't scripted? Avoid it. The end.

v I'm sorry but you're only fueling the fire here. I've learnt in the past that it's not smart to take these things to journals.

Message the person, tell them how you feel and sort shit out. Don't bad mouth them in journals. Also, iust because you deleted the journal so that everyone doesn't see who your talking about, doesn't mean persons don't already remember who it is from the last journal you posted.

I certainly know who it is, but luckily I have no ill feelings towards that person concerning this. Calm your shit, and take it to the message box ... savvy?

I understand how you feel. People on Mibba can be so condescending that you can't help but get riled up. I've been on here for years and people still feel the need to try and correct me when I notice something is corrupt and point it out, and I'm the one who proves to them that they're wrong in the end.

I like to give people who break rules the benefit of the doubt. I've only reported one person, and it's because they were bashing someone they had reported and bragging about how they got them banned. I've even seen admin bash on users, but can't report that, can you?

People need to calm down and not jump the gun for petty reasons.

Didn't someone already warn you that journals like these is considered bashing, and you can be banned for it?