vv. Did I not adress and say all of this? If you're going to comment on something and have an opinion, fine, but make sure you read everything first next time.
Another good quote I saw on tumblr (The Zac, I disagree, I think tumblr is awesome) is '"Slut” is how we vilify a woman for exercising her right to say “yes”. “Friendzone” is how we vilify a woman for exercising her right to say “no”.'
I do hate the how friendzone thing, mainly because I mostly see men directing it at women and acting like the women owe them something.
First off, Tumblr is not a credible source for anything but faggotry. Having said that, most dudes who get friendzoned are the ones who didn't have the balls to make a move. But the blame can go both ways, I know girls who play on that and string them along and use the poor nice guy but when he finally has the guts to make a move she plays the "friend" card.