When someone says they love you. - Comments

@ BebisQueen
Then I don't really see how you're on a break if you can't go an hour without talking to each other.

@ BebisQueen
Maybe you really need to sit down and re-evaluate this break. If you are still so interdependent then it doesn't seem to be achieving much.

@ bella heart shawnee
it works both ways. So no I'm not too dependent on her, I just want her to text me back within an hour because I want to talk to her.

To me it just sounds as if you're a little too dependant on her if she's not allowed to do her own thing for more than an hour at a time.

@ The Rumor
we've known each other for two years, have bee involved with each other for a year, but didn't go on this 'break' until the middle of July.

@ BebisQueen
How long has it been going on?

@ The Rumor
yeah every time we talk about it, we get to the same conclusion, it's a cycle we go through, it's draining.

It kind of sounds like you need to sit down and define your relationship a bit more closely. If you're on a break but can't not talk for an hour and can't take a step back and still say you love her, that seems like it's a lot of mixed messages to me. You don't sound like you're on a break at all, just in a really confusing relationship. It's got to be hard for both of you and, while I'd understand someone being worried if someone is constantly seeking reassurance and can't trust, it's also not fair for her to be angry at you.

@ bella heart shawnee

It's harder to explain from an outside perspective, but she always gets mad when i ask her if she still loves me because she says i should know she does but she doesn't say it..and it's not my cue to take a step back because when i do she gets upset. and an hour is unacceptable because i feel like it is. My opinion.

I don't understand why an hour would be unacceptable? If she doesn't say she loves you on her own maybe that's your que to take a step back and honor that you're on a break?