I'm pathetic. - Comments

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@ Usako
I guess that makes sense. Thank you so much for the advice.

@ supersmilez
Okay, I'll remember that! Thanks

@ the.only.ems

I went through a "very" similar situation in high school. I tried to make friends, which was hard enough because I'm very shy, and they never put as much effort into the friendship. To be honest, I may be had 1-2 real friends in high school and I didn't meet them until my late junior and senior year. You will make real friends, but if you stop befriending people, you will never find them!

High school sucks, been there and done that. You have to get through this, and be strong.

kay good it actually helps a ton! :) but if they don't work you can always message me and spill your thoughts out ill gladly talk it out with you kay? :)

@ supersmilez
Thank you..those are some really great ideas. I'll try :)

you are not pathetic you are a beautiful person. things may seem hard right now but things get better in life. the things we do now they do have an effect on us but it's rarely lasting. You just have to keep looking for the guy who will really love you some people find it in there teens some later it doesn't matter when though because you will find them. friends don't do things to hurt you, when your bothered like this do what Usako says confront them or if you are the type to bite your tongue do something you like. write something draw something heck even sing! if you like it but you don't think your good that shouldn't change that it's something you love to do. try to relax a little bit go for a walk or something to get your mind off it. a good thing i have found that helps people is to write down what your thinking write down all your problems in life and do one of two things A) burn it, burn it outside and watch the ashes fly away your problems drift away B) make it into a paper airplane and throw it off a bridge into the water.

@ Usako
Wow. Thanks for reading. I thought no one would :\

It's just in every "friendship" I've had, I've always been the more loyal one. It's as if nobody loves like I love, and it really just makes me want to stop befriending people. I've spent 2 years thinking this girl (the one I was talking about) was my one of my best friends, and...well, it's safe to say that as soon as she finds someone cooler, I'm gonna be yesterday. It doesn't help that I'm the youngest of all my friends. I always feel like I'm just a tag-a-long, even if it's only by a year or two. & then I withdraw and stop smiling and turn into the group pessimist, which makes everything worse.

I really appreciate your input. I know I need to stop worrying, but honestly I don't know how.

You aren't pathetic. You are far from it.

As lame as it sounds, I'm sure there is someone who truly cares for you. When you are in a bad mood, it seems as if nobody cares and nothing goes right. If your friends don't care about you; they are not your friends. Don't even call them your friends. Real friends care for you and would never do anything to hurt you, you know?

If things are messed up between you are your friends, why not try taking the bull by the horns? Confront them on it. If not, just let things play out. Accept the things you cannot change and move on. It sounds like you are making yourself sick from worry, and I know that can be very unhealthy, to say the very least. I know that from personal experience.