"You're Father was a Swine!" - Comments

  • BabySkulls356

    BabySkulls356 (150)

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    When it comes to issues with parents, I get it.
    Mom ((I mean MOM mom)) was the same way...
    Yah, I lived with the woman for a few years.
    You know how much I remember her?
    My memories of before the divorce, I can't ever remember her. That's how active she was when we ALL lived under one roof.
    And she didn't give me the time of day after the divorce, either.

    Honestly, if your dad is going to be like that, I see some things you could do ((up to you which one(s) you pick)).

    1.) Just ignore the bastard
    2.) Flood his inbox with hate/lovey mail ((hating ragers from his pissed off offspring or lovey from his loving daughter))
    3.) Send him a shitload of stuff to his Facebook and annoy the shit out of him.
    4.) Bitch to your mom and see if she can do something ((if you haven't tried already, though I bet you probably have...))
    5.) Tell the man off and see if he has anything to say. That means you don't take his crap and you just tell him WORD FOR WORD how you feel about him and what he's doing.
    6.) Find out where he lives and, if it's near by, give him a surprise visit and tell him straight up.

    Honestly, if it were my mom/dad doing this ((at the age I am now))...I'd do at least half of those.
    Personally, this is what I see myself doing if it were me:

    walking up to mom's door, knock, open the door ((or wait if it's locked)), and have a nice chat with her.
    Tell her just how much it hurts what she's done, what damage it's done being ignored and made to think that I didn't matter to one of the two people who brought me into this world, and I'd probably smack the bitch.


    Don't take any crap,
    Don't listen to any excuses,
    I really think you should push this into his face.

    Kait is right, though. You have an awesome mom and she raised you VERY well.
    Hell, you're one of our best friends!!!!!
    Don't let him get you down, but don't let him just treat you like you don't exist. Kay?
    January 31st, 2013 at 07:06pm
  • hangsang.

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    I understand what you're going through, loverly. But you have a great mom (I mean really, she's one of the greatest!) and who cares about him?! I mean, yeah it's nice to have a father figure to go to, but if he wants to be a douchey-pants, then he's not worth it at all. Keep yo head up! ;)
    January 31st, 2013 at 05:44pm
  • Justified Sundays

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    Okay. I REALLY don't blame you, there. Who plays video games instead of talking to their child?! WTF?! Mhm, that Epic Bubble Pop must take some concentration. Rolling Eyes Sorry you have to deal with that.
    January 31st, 2013 at 04:56pm