MY EMOTIONS ARE REALLY CONFLICTED AT THE MOMENT - Comments

BOO! BOYS ARE THE WORST!

I'm sorry, that sucks. I also deem "Dibs", because then when I recount the story late, no matter what, I'm in the right. If Dibs has been called, that is that, and yeah. Ta freaking da. Lol. And also, it really sucks that your friend is getting so much dick, and then demands that you not get involved with this boy who is obviously interested in you simply because she would like to keep him for herself. Thats no fair. You should scream or hit something. Like, really randomly to freak everyone the fuck out.

Idk. Its what I'd do. Idgaf.

I'm finding faults in two parties here, not just one. Possessiveness of someone you're not dating--regardless of the gender of the offending party-- is strange to me. Its silly, and a bit childish. People aren't toys or objects. Your friend reminds me of how immature my best friend was back in high school. Does that rule only apply to everyone but her? Like you can't mess with the boys she's had flings with but anyone--including people you're interested in or have dated-- are fair game for her? You could get sassy if thats the case and point out how ridiculous and immature her mindset is. Especially if she isn't serious about these boys. And tell her that either the rule goes both ways or it doesn't work at all. Shes not god, or someone in any type of position to claim who is on and off limits simply because they've hooked up once, especially if shes moved on since then. If shes got someone new, what does she care anyways? Its a control issue in my opinion. You're not her minion or her underling therefore she should not treat you like such. You're a person and supposedly her friend. If she actually cares about you such trite declarations of owner ship shouldn't be made at all.

When you mentioned this boy you're crushing on was hanging out with her again and potentially flirting my chode alarm started going off. I don't think I trust him. Hes sounds potentially horny and the type to see what he can get and how far hecan go with whoever strikes his fancy. If you just want to hook up with him and get him out of your system i say go for it. But if it might be more than that please exercise caution. Boys like that aren't worth your frustration or heartbreak.

this kinda reminds me of my own 'love life' a few months ago. like he was kinda flirting with both of us..but we realised our friendship was more important than some guy.. but you on the other hand, seem to have a sucky friend.. find a new crush and friend too. hope you find a sexier crush to wave in your friends's face like 'mine beyotch'

I'm sorry, but obvs, your friend isn't a real friend. Does she know that you have/had a crush on him? If she has a boyfriend already, this little fling with your crush probably isn't serious. I think that it's okay for you to go over on Monday, and if I were you I'd flirt with him and then shove my boobs in your friend's face and say, "Cut them off, you little bitch, I dare you!" But yeah. Boys do suck.