Troubles... :( - Comments

Oh my goodness XD I have never heard anyone around here being called a Ranga XD I love that! I even know what it means thats crazy, sorry that's just cute. But anyways yeah I bet he is people with tempers AKA my boyfriend are good to go when it comes to the Gym :P
And well that's how girls are....they act all innocent...then you get about a 2-3 weeks into the relationship and BAM! They show their real colors. O_O

@ kshelton2011
Haha I dunno, one of my best mates is a ranga and he's got a short temper. Makes him a good gym buddy though lol. And yeah I seem to attract the crazies. I dunno what it is. But it's never the straight up crazies it's the ones who slowly reveal themselves as insane.

@ The Zac
>.> Yeah he does that a lot. People think that Redheads=Temper.....ehh not me. I have a lot more patience than that XD. But yeah that is so true O_O I had a lot of guy friends growing up and seen them go through girlfriends....yeah I was gonna even touch that. XD haha :P

@ kshelton2011
Haha yeah people being mad is hilarious. I don't blame him. And yeah I know you're not all that bad, just the few that ruin it for everyone lol.

@ The Zac
Oh gosh, I'm not that bad. haha (: But I think my boyfriend tries to do anything to make me mad because he thinks it's funny...mainly because I never get mad at anything. I have a high tolerance for my anger, and he knows exactly what to do to get me on edge.
And for your crazy exs I'm sorry...haha XD We arent all that bad. A lot of girls are though O_O It's not good at all.

@ kshelton2011
I'd go with weird and complicated haha. Or maybe I've just dated too many crazies. But yeah it's probably good you went here and let off a bit of steam and collected your thoughts a bit. It'll all go down a lot smoothly if you're straight up, assertive but not going apeshit over it. I've had some crazy girls go apeshit over even smaller problems. It's not fun lol.

@ The Zac
Oh sorry haha. Yeah I know, I just needed to let off some steam before I talk to him and maybe get a little advice because it could be something stupid and I would have went off. But now I'm chilled out and I can just talk to him about it. And yeah I definitely know that guys don't really get us at first XD. We are complicated creatures that can't be tamed XD! That or we are just weird. But thanks for the advice though. ((:

@ kshelton2011
No i'm saying you shouldn't talk to strangers about it. It's not really going to get much done. I wouldn't be comfortable with a girlfriend talking to her exes. Anyone with a romantic past would make me somewhat uncomfortable. But that's just me. If it were just his mates I wouldn't sweat it too much. But yeah, talk to him first. Let him know calmly and reasonably why it bothers you. If you say nothing he will assume nothing is wrong. Us dudes are like that, we don't always pick up on the subtle signs you girls have haha.

So basically, to me it seems sketchy. But don't go on what I'm saying. Talk to him.

@ The Zac
The thing is it's not strangers he is talking to its people that he has had "friendships" with before he had met me. If it was a stranger I wouldn't care one bit. And when he is jealous it's more of if I'm talking to anyone....even my girl best friend. I don't talk to guys unless they are my family or if they ask me a question that isn't too personal...or a professional question that actually needs to be answered. But I do need to talk to him...yet again. He even talks to his Exs.... that's why I get nervous when he starts talking to girls that I know he has had relationships before. :/

First step is to talk to him and not complain about him to strangers on the internet. If I were him that would piss me right off. It's either, he's being a dick and hitting on other girls, or he's just having casual conversation with some friends. Do you have guy friends? Maybe he gets jealous too. The most important thing to do is to talk to him and let him know what's bothering you and why. None of us on here really know what the go is. There's not enough here to give us a good idea.

@ On Angel's Wings
I will try that thank you. I just needed to let out a little steam. (:

@ kshelton2011
Well try talking to him calmly just in case it's nothing bad

@ On Angel's Wings
Well he only lets me go onto his Facebook for certain things, and he deletes the messages that he sent. That's the only thing that worries me. I don't care that he talks to people, it doesn't bother me one bit....but this one time we were going through a rough patch and he started talking to this girl saying he would take care of her.... :/

It was probably harmless hun don't get yourself worked up over it! You need to let him have space to breath let him talk to who he wants to talk to because trust s important in a relationship and if you go off at him it will only cause more problems ! If he had something to hide then he wouldn't let you anywhere near his facebook