I really need some relationship advice on something that's been going on for a while now :/ - Comments

I think if it's been two years, she can't really be upset over you guys dating. You should probably just talk to her about it, and tell her how you feel. Make her understand how much you like him and that you always have.
In the end, though, you shouldn't let a guy come between your friendship. That's my opinion, though. Hope that helps!(:

I kinda have to disagree with what the others have said. True she's your friend and you should tell her what's going on but at the end of the day thay broke up ages ago and she has to learn that he's moved on and it's better for her to move on as well. If she's a true friend she'll understand, if not then it's her problem that she hasn't moved on. This is just my opinion anyway. >.<

Put yourself in her shoes and how do you feel when your friend tells you they like the guy you like, and he might like her back. Ouch. It depends how she takes things. Personally, I turn being hurt into lashing out at others. It's human to feel.

If this guy asks you out, you could explain the thing with your friend. You have time to play with. If he likes you, you don't have to act on it right now. Maybe wait and see what happens? You can still be close friends. You can still grow together. It's hard either way. I guess it depends which would hurt you less if it got to its ugliest point: losing a friend or losing him.

I dont' agree that if she's a good friend, she'll understand. She can be a good friend and still be horribly upset over you dating her ex-boyfriend who she still has feelings for.

I think boys come and go, but your girl friends will always be there for you if you treat each other right. If Luke doesn't want to be friends with you anymore because you won't date him, that's ridiculous on his part.

I went through a similar situation in high school with my best friend, only we both ended up sneaking around to date this guy and got our feelings hurt. We decided mutually not to see him anymore or to pursue him, and that was a good decision. Once he realized he'd never sleep with either of us, he ignored us, and I'm happy to say that 6 years later my best friend then was my maid of honor at my wedding. Treat your friends right, and they'll stick around.

I'd tell her. If she's a true friend, she'll understand.