Why The Male Species Annoys Me Sometimes - Comments

The entire male species is freakin defective. I wish there was like some factory to send them back to or something. =.=

Because I had a similar situation in high school (except my escapade went on for about five years, even into my freshmen year in college), I would give you an forewarning for guys like that. It was pretty much the same thing. I was best friends with this guy because he was the one of the few I felt I could be open to, and all of his friends and my "friends", said that he liked me. We flirted in our own way like crazy, and he even told me he liked me, but he never asked me out. He asked out other girls instead. Being brief, as soon as we started to seriously think about becoming a couple in college, I saw a completely different and dark side to him. The relationship ended very badly.

Your guy may not be like that, and I shouldn't generalize, but wishy washy guys are a bane. Don't waste your time. I mean, push come to shove confront him, but he doesn't really sound boyfriend material in my honest opinion. There are better fish in the sea.

Have you actually tried telling him that rather than just ignoring him? Also why not ask him out rather than wait for him?

I've just read your other blog, man this boy needs to sort himself out.

I'm glad that your friend is okay about it, that must take a whole weight off of your shoulders.

Guys can be very annoying, you're definitely right there xD And I know how they can be with their flirting.

*Not going to go into so much detail here* but something very similar happened to me not so long ago. Basically there was this guy I've liked for years, we went out two years ago (It only lasted two months) and to put it simply, I never moved on. I was hung up on him and tried to use every excuse to speak to him. I wasn't clingy, we didn't speak for nearly a year after the "Break-up" and I haven't flirted. I'm way too awkward for that.
Basically, shit happened, he started to flirt with me again (like how you described in this) but I did nothing about it. Sure, I flirted a little back, but didn't say much about it. I wanted him to make the move, but he never did.

So what I'm saying is, he got bored of me and started flirting with other girls- including a lot of my friends which seriously pissed me off.

I'm not saying that this guy will do the same, because he probably won't and I doubt he'll get bored of you c=
Not to mention that that guy was (Still is) a massive dick and this dude doesn't sound so bad.

Don't worry too much about it, but if you can't see it going anywhere, maybe you should talk to him and make it blatantly obvious that you want to be with him.

I know I suck at the whole advice giving, but I hope that this helps and I apologize if it doesn't =3

Anyway, I'm sure he'll like you for the creepy child eater that you are =)

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