My sister's boyfriend may very well kill her... - Comments

@ dru will be okay.
Her mother was in an abusive relationship while we were growing up and one of her best friends was in a similar situation but got out when she found she was pregnant. We've all sat with her and talked about it but she still chooses to ignor it all. He's got her believing that no good man will ever want her because they'll only use her for her body. She has never believed in sex before marriage but, because she lost her virginity to a previous boyfriend, this current guy tells her that she's ruined. I hate him so much.

@ EdWiN.isamonster
Do you or she have a friend or relative who's been in a similar situation that could help her? Sometimes it takes someone who has lived through the lies, coersion, and abuse to know what he's done to your sisters thought process and psyche. Regardless, I truly hope you can help her.

@ Cerbera.
I'm currently out of town so, from what I understand, one of our older sisters called them. There are children in the house so she's pretty set on seeing this dude locked up.

@ dru will be okay.
So far she has no intention of leaving him. My sisters expect me over this week to try and talk some sense into her. It's not the first time that she's been in an abusive relationship (though I'm the only sister who has that information) but its the first that's escalated to such an extreme. I was able to, slowly, coax her away from the first so I just hope that I'll be able to do it again

The most dangerous time is when the victim decides to leave, so if she wants to, do your best to help her form an escape plan with a domestic violence hotline if necessary

Have you called the police? if he beat her, he can't get away with the law. If she's in denial, then I think only people with authority who understand the seriousness of this problem. Hopefully, they can convince her that she could end up dead.