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  • BitterEndXII

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    How twee! Run free, little one! I "change" every few months - It's bloody badass. I learned very early on that having obsessions and caring too much only leads to extreme dependence and well... General pessimism, which really, is stupid, considering things one tends to obsess over are dependent of our own lives, and out of our control. I'm familiar with this, but in a more optimistic fashion. I tend to just drift along in an alarmingly hyper active state, and it works perfectly! Drift in and out of things, just keep a core of ideals of who you wanna be. Who cares if your music tastes, hobbies and such fluxuate around it? Change is good! One thing to remember though, is don't let your interests dominate your personality. Try and be friends with some jocks or something, you know? Because material stuff doesn't matter - So long as you are similar at core! Don't worry about "who you are", you are already that person, changing a taste isn't gunna change that, I assure. One thing I will say though - Don't replace your old obsessions with your new friends! Don't depend on ANYTHING except yourself - Because at the end of the day, this is the only thing you have control over! I feel as though I may write a blog of what I've just said... If I fancy it, I'll throw you a mention. XD x
    September 22nd, 2013 at 07:09pm
  • SingingInTheOil

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    I absolutely love this, and I support you 100%. I hope you can find who you really are. Good luck. Smile
    September 21st, 2013 at 05:02pm
  • Mr. Darcy

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    I am so familiar with this, not even kidding. My Chem meant the world to me for around two years of my life...and then I kind of lost touch with everything in life and I haven't quite got back in touch with it all, but over the last year I've lost respect for some of the ex-members and I guess I will never get back in touch with them as I was previously after the way they played us fans in believing that there would be a fifth album and then just turning round and breaking up on us in six sentences.
    September 21st, 2013 at 02:40am
  • notrelevant

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    The same sort of thing happens to me periodically. I completely change mindsets fairly often. Especially with the My Chem thing...They were the first band I ever loved with all my heart, and I was obsessed with them for probably about 4 years, and then suddenly I just didn't like them. Since then, I've begin listening to them again. Now I listen to their music every day, but it's just the music, not the members. I don't know. I used to adore all of them, but I grew and lost respect for some of them. I still love Frank, though. And Bob.
    September 21st, 2013 at 02:12am