Breakup - What to expect? - Comments

My first bf broke up with me last week, I'm going through a bipolar like phase where I listen to some upbeat girly music and think "it wasn't meant to be, you knew you didn't like that realtionship, he did both of us a favor" and then I'm just like "It can't be happening, there's no way I'm never seeing him again"
and just agh I got some suicidal thoughts, didn't try anything, but thought about it, just ending it for myself cause now I just don't want anything out of life. worst thing, I start college in 3 weeks, something that I don't want to, was gonna lead on him when I started, but now he's gone (he was my best friend, and just the closest friend I ever had in my life)

he broke up with me cause he said he didn't feel like he used to, and he couldn't lie to me and tell me he loved me like he did before, I know was childish in the relationship, so that makes me feel even worst, just keep thinking of the what ifs, and well he didn't say it to my face, he said over chat and told me we should't talk for a while, so sad :'(

@ ladyschrei
I may end up doing this, but he is in quite a few after school activities that I kinda have to go to :( I may ask him to back off though :) Thankyou by the way!

@ Tholomew Plague
I didn't mind it at first but when I woke up today I just though WHAT THE HELL and then that made me post this, to see if this is common or not :L He is an extremely flirtatious guy anyway so I think I first brushed it off as that but yeah . Thankyou so much!

Well it's different for everybody. I don't mind it when my ex's bring up pervy stuff, but then again, that's me. If it bother's you, you gotta tell him. It seem's like that's just how he is, so he probably doesn't even realise it's making you uncomfortable.

I think he is crossing a line of sorts. You should just tell him that you no longer wish to see or speak to him, tell him you aren't a toy for him to try to play with.