14 year-olds doing the sex in stories???? - Comments

@ Writer in the Rye
It already in progress actually. It's Sweet Like Sugar if you want to read it. But yeah I totally know you aren't all like that. Not that there's anything wrong with being "like that". I didn't have my first real kiss until I was 18 and I had a few virgin friends (like one or two) haha.

Glad you're proud of being a hot nerd lol own it girl. But being inexperienced sexually and choosing to stay that way doesn't mean you're a nerd. It just means you've never kissed anyone and that's cool. You can still be just regular hot! You're just hot regardless, you feel me?

I wouldn't mind reading an "inferred" sex scene, and this is coming from a 15 year old who views reading smut equivalent to torture XD I know I'm the minority in my generation, but I wanted to let you know we're not ALL like that. My group of friends and I still haven't even had our first kisses, let alone SEX. A boy told us the other day we were the "hot nerds", and you know what? I'm proud XD

I'm very interested in your story - do keep me updated on it's release ^_^

God Bless!!

xoxo

I was 14 when I first had sex and I regretted it for a long time and after that relationship (we were together for over a year) ended I stayed abstinent until I was 18.

However, the fact remains that kids at that age DO have sex regardless of legality and what not. But as others said I wouldn't feel comfortable reading it or writing it. I did have a set of characters that age who eventually had sex. But I didn't write it out as smut. I just mentioned it and skipped along to the next chapter.

I think it would be completely fine to do that. From my experience, I don't think it's extremely weird for a 14 year old to have sex, especially now, in these times. I'm 18 now, but I had sex for the first time when I was 17 and my boyfriend was 14 (it was his first time, too). We didn't have sex until 7 months into our relationship and there was never any pressure, it just kind of happened.

But, honestly, I think that's fine to do in your story. It's not or creepy at all.

@ fitzpleasure
@ XXXataktoulaXXX

Thanks for the input guys

I think 14 and 15 is too young for anal sex however fooling around with hands or maybe even oral (depends on the guys personality) is okay.

My circle of friends were the same and I had my first time when I was fifteen. I am twenty-two now and I am still with the same guy.

I believe that 15/16 is a good age to have sex if you believe you are ready. Me and my boyfriend had sex one week after we became a couple, we were (still are) that much in love.

Since one of the boys is 14, having sex is a bit early. I'd suggest keep it on fellatio and hands.

I believe that would be okay.

@ addictedsevenfold
I would be uncomfortable reading something like that as well. Which is part of the reason I made this blog. I mean I definitely wouldn't go into detail of it. That would be extremely beyond creepy. Like I said it wouldn't be anything too intense just like that next tiny step after you past making out. My story is still PG-13 *shrugs* After thinking about a little though I don't think I'll put it in at this time.

The age of consent here is 18 and at 16 I was the only virgin among my friends so it was very rare for people to wait to that age even though it's against the law. By consensual I mean they made the choice to do it themselves with their (also under aged) partners at the time.

I mean, if people are allowed to write about rape and such, I don't see why they wouldn't be allowed to write about 14 year olds having sex. Still, I'd be uncomfortable reading it, because I'd feel a bit pedophiliac, but that's just me. I think it's probably realistic that they'd be fooling around and maybe even having sex, but I just wouldn't be comfortable reading anything beyond making out, when the characters are that age. Probably just me, though!

And, for the record, if you're living in the United States, technically none of your sexually active 14- and 15- year old friends had consensual sex. They hadn't yet reached the age of consent, so by legal standards, they couldn't consent to the sexual activity, and therefore it was technically statutory rape.

You're so welcome. FYI I'm totally fine. Kids choice XD

@ YOUxMEx5
Thanks for the comment. I just wouldn't want to make anyone uncomfortable ya know. You can check it out here if you'd like.

@ A. J.
@ vaduva.
That's what I was thinking. Thanks for your comments :)

I think it would be completely expected if they fooled around, I mean it doesn't seem weird or creepy to me. I write about older characters, so I don't know what I'd do, but I think some fooling around would only be natural.

definitely OK to write about it. They'd also discuss sex when they've been together long enough and or at least get each other off aside from making out and rutting. That's natural.

It'd be fine :) I wouldn't care ^~^ I'll make sure to check it out

@ Artemis Love
Thanks for the input :)

@ kim wonshik.
I think they would...or at least think about it. I mean they are teenage boys. I'm still on the fence about it. Thanks though :)

Hm, well, I'm with you. I, personally, think 14 years old is too young to have sex, but yeah, just me. I mean, it really comes down to the way you're writing the characters, I think. What do you think they'd do? Sorry, I'm not much help! But I do think it's fine to add it if you'd want to add it.

Personally, I think its alright to add that