My mom has tried THOUSANDS of times to make grow out my hair. Ugh she gave up. Now she tries to make me wear bigger bras. Ask your step mom to buy you sports bras. They're a lot better.
@ ladyschrei I know I need to tell them, but I'm waiting. I'm 14 and I know they'll dismiss it. They've done it before. And I know. I am cutting my hair no matter what....I know where they hide the scissors hehehe yep. Thanks for your advice :)
I honestly don't really know how to help except to say just come out to them. For your hair, though, if you don't want to grow it out, don't. They don't make these decisions, you do.
We're working things out