The sexual adventures in the life of an attempted recluse pt 1 (TMI worthy; Rated M for Mature) - Comments

Reminds me of my fiance at first, ong fingernails and not knowing exactly what to do properly xD

@ independence.
Lmao ikr?

@ XXXataktoulaXXX
That's what I've been trying to do. Doesn't help tho I started my monthly today like ugh.

Yep lol

Same here

I wish boys had to take a class on this shit before doing things to a girl. It would make life so much easier.

Yea, I totally get what you mean. Try putting ice on it if it still hurts but only keep it for a few minutes. You should also keep away from anything that can make you sweat down there.

Sub type? Cool.

Long nails are a no for boys. I don't like men with long nails. Not at all.

@ XXXataktoulaXXX
Yes, cut. It hurts.

This was the first date, so with me, this was the first time. I like being the one who's taught~ #thestruggle lol

Ugh, I guess that's what I'm gonna have to do yaknow? Plus, tell him to cut his nails since... whateven, you don't go in a woman with nails that are long. his nails are longer than mine, like wtf.

I'm just not a fan of long nails period. x'D Not for someone who does fingerin, yaknow?

@ kyojin;
they are lyin if they say they never have. troof.

@ independence.
I hate that stuff. "You're alright, come back." Like dude, let me cut your anus, and see how it feels.

@ animal soup
I'm feeling a bit better, but still plenty sore. I guess I am just gonna have to tell him because I don't want to feel like that again. >_> All jokes aside, that was not a pleasant experience.

@ tigermilk
I literally figuratively just died because of that video.

But srsly? You have issues with men because you didn't let him hurt a seriously sensitive area of you? Like, would he have wanted you to bite one of his nuts? no. pfft, men.

That's my thing I don't need to have sex with this guy, and if he's just gonna hurt me because of his carelessness then I am better by my lonesome.

You even got cut?
Wow, I wouldn't want to be in your shoes.

Has he done something like this before? If he hasn't, teach me. Being the teacher is good some times you know.

When my boyfriend tried something similar (no, he didn't have long nails and didn't cut me, he was just too rough and it actually hurt), I stopped him and showed him how.

Long nails for guys are an absolutely NO!

HI!! It's okay, though. We all have awk moments, especially in the bedroom department. If someone tells me they have an awk-less sex life, I probably won't believe they're real.

Oh god Jesus omg That reminds me of when Jason tried to do something and I was like "no no no" and tried pulling away and he was like "you're okay" and I was like "NO JUST STOP". Boys are forever dumb.

oh nooooo no no that is awful, ladyparts are so sensitive and communication is so important anytime any sort of intimate activity is going to happen. Next time I would definitely explicitly tell him "Stop, you are causing me pain/hurting me/doing something I'm not comfortable with because he can seriously injure you. I know it may feel awkward in the situation, but your personal safety and health are FAR more important. rest up and feel better, okay? <3

oh nooooo no no that is awful, ladyparts are so sensitive and communication is so important anytime any sort of intimate activity is going to happen. Next time I would definitely explicitly tell him "Stop, you are causing me pain/hurting me/doing something I'm not comfortable with because he can seriously injure you. I know it may feel awkward in the situation, but your personal safety and health are FAR more important. rest up and feel better, okay? <3

oh my god I have been in the same situation!!! but without the long fingernails, I asked him to stop or slow down but he got the mega hump with me!!!! and he refused to talk to me like he turned his back on me and went to sleep (or into a sulk) and later on he accused me of having underlying issues with men!! because I said I was a feminist and because I didn't let him accidentally pull parts of my anatomy off I mean MY GOODNESS

I didn't get intimate with him again and it's just as well even though he was good at other kinky stuff

next time you're in a situation like that, explicitly say "stop, you're hurting me" because he needs to know that kind of thing is UNACCEPTABLE (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=07So_lJQyqw) xxx

@ wonderyear?
I know it would make it better in some sense but I just don't even know how to bring something like that up. :c

omg no no nonono. im so sorry but dude don't be afraid to speak up in situations like that. it's awkward but it makes things so much better and less disappointing when you just tell him what to do. boys are stupid and can't pick up on the hints haha sometimes you just have to be blunt. also he really needs to cut his nails or think of a better way to have fun with girls :)

@ kyojin;
Yeah... that's me, awk. It's alright. xD HEY

@ dyke
I told you I need a Shane.
Ikr ;-;

You need a Shane.
And he needs to cut his damn nails. treating my wife badly.

I don't even know what to say about this dear amiga. Just... yeah. Hi. This is awk. I'm so sorry.

@ Hiddleston.
Idk if my poor fragile body can handle it. lmfao

@ seasalt.
Aweee -Hugs-
Just hope that won't happen again D:

@ Hiddleston.
Yeah, at least he tried.
A little too hard.
He power-drove me, foreal like... ugh

Omg you poor thing!!!!
I'm so sorry that happened!
I've had those awkward kinky stuff too, and I'm sorry for the pain in the land down under.

He tried xD it counts for something right? Maybe next time check his hands? I don't know xD