Some things have to change. - Comments

  • MsGates

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    @ xMandiblesx
    Oh I know! Friends are a constant battle for me. My best friend is out of state and I spend most of my time at work or reading lol. Things are on constant flux for me but for now its okay. Sprinkling all the good juju on you!
    March 27th, 2014 at 03:04am
  • CountSynula

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    @ MsGates
    Hey! Don't apologize. Thank you for commenting. Mr. Green I'm glad things have improved for you. I just feel so off and in about work. Some days it's great but when it 's bad it's bad. I've been there for five years so it feels like it's time to move on. Cool As for friends, I think finding good, lasting ones is a constant quest lol.
    March 26th, 2014 at 07:16pm
  • MsGates

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    I completely understand about the job thing. I just puy my notice in after putting up with crap for to long. I went through a temp agency and finally found something that I can leave this hellhole for. So keep looking. The friend thing is harder. I just had to start cutting people out of my life who were toxic. It hurt but in the long run I am happier.
    Sorry to randomly post but I saw so much of myself in this post I had to. If you need an anonymous ear feel free to talk me.
    March 26th, 2014 at 02:43pm
  • CountSynula

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    @ Pocky_1691
    Thanks a lot! That's why I always try to express my appreciation for people. I know how it feels to be taken for granted. Hope things work out for you too!
    March 24th, 2014 at 11:35pm
  • Pocky_1691

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    I'm always the nice person too. Give my friends rides and a place to stay when things at home are rough. I don't even get thanked. I feel so unappreciated.

    I'm glad you're putting a foot down. Some people need to stop treating people like they're expected to do stuff for them.

    I hope things work out for you job-related. And everything else, lol.
    March 24th, 2014 at 09:19pm
  • robyn.

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    @ xMandiblesx
    Yeah, you've got to be brave to do it but I'm always a coward and back out at the last minute but I hope one day you are able to do that!
    March 24th, 2014 at 09:04pm
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    @ raw.
    Yeah, like I hate having to confront people . I've always just let things slide and people pick up on that and continuously treat me bad. I 've got to be brave enough to speak up and tell them to stop bothering me!
    March 24th, 2014 at 09:02pm
  • robyn.

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    @ xMandiblesx
    Oh yeah I know that exactly. I just let things slide mostly but if something really gets on my nerves I tend to explode Facepalm
    March 24th, 2014 at 09:00pm
  • CountSynula

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    @ raw.
    Thank you! Feel free to use it all you like! :) I'm just one of those people who hate to put my foot down with people even if they do deserve it, you know?
    March 24th, 2014 at 08:53pm
  • robyn.

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    The three strike thing actually sounds pretty reasonable and cool, I might actually use that. I hope you manage to find a new job soon where you're more appreciated than you are at that place!
    March 24th, 2014 at 08:51pm