I'm sorry he made it such a bad date. I'm not gonna offer excuses for him, but maybe he had something on his mind and that's why he acted that way. I know from experiences with my own boyfriend that they're not great at expressing themselves when something is bothering them and they can get very cold when they want to.
As for asking for sex and/or a blowjob... Unfortunately, as a guy they don't seem to connect the physical activity to emotions like we do, so he probably figured it was a way to smooth things over. Of course it was completely fair that you weren't in the mood after the way he'd behaved and I'm glad you told him no. You deserve better than that, 100%.
The worst part of this is that he knows you're upset after this whole days was supposed to be amazing and he asks if you'd have sex, well, give head, with him. -_- Really now? Gosh, the idea makes me laugh. Why in the world would you possibly...after...ugh.
As for asking for sex and/or a blowjob... Unfortunately, as a guy they don't seem to connect the physical activity to emotions like we do, so he probably figured it was a way to smooth things over. Of course it was completely fair that you weren't in the mood after the way he'd behaved and I'm glad you told him no. You deserve better than that, 100%.
I hope you're doing better ::hugs: