Sex - Comments

@ Cyber Hina
No, it's cool! I do the same when I feel strongly about something! :)

And, yeah, we kinda took over this blog entry... sowwy! *giggles*

Thank you for reminding me.
Conversations are always good. And i'm sorry but i claim you. (Kidding. XD)

@ Cyber Hina
It's okay you owe me fanfiction so do what you want lol jk.

It's totally rad you guys are conversing on here. That's what I wanted! Coverstations!

@ Insanity's Artist
Truuuue. Good point.

@ The Human Slayer
Gotta claim this before you tap this.

@ pixiewayro
I know! Lovely isn't it? I'm sorry for all the ranting. I tend to ramble a bit.

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And CHarity, Sorry for carrying a conversation in this blog! D:

@ Cyber Hina
Amen! That's how I feel, exactly! Sex doesn't automatically equal maturity... I enjoy it when my sentiments are shared! *hugs*

@ pixiewayro
IKR? But I think some people (the ones that pressure others into having sex and losing their virginity) probably thinks that by losing your virginity, you'll be more grown up, more mature somehow, but I think that's wrong. To some extent, people will seem more mature if they lose their virginity, maybe. but maturity is more of a how you act kind of deal and how you handle things.

@ Cyber Hina
Praise the Lord some people feel the same way I do! I feel like I'm the only virgin my age (completely by choice), and I often sit and wonder...when the hell did this become such a huge deal?... You know? Ugh! People these days... *shakes head*

I'm always given crap about still being a virgin at 24. I mean really? Most of the crap comes from this one former friend living in Hawaii with her husband and child that she claims she regrets marrying and having respectively but that's a different story there.

Honestly, idc about having sex and i'm proud to be waiting for the right one. Sex isn't really desirable thing to me. It's more like something special that's supposed to happen at the right moment with the right person. Or something to that effect.

SOrry for my rambling. Sex is a bit awkward for me to talk about.

I think the need for sex has always been there but suppressed. Even in the eras where marriage was paramount to society, men having a mistress or multiple was normal, but for the sake of the name of the family and to honor his wife, he was to keep it secret. Secret affairs were common, but OPEN affairs were absolutely scandalous. For women, there was a long period of time where the idea of a woman having sexual desires of her own was considered an actual disorder so the need for sex there was even more suppressed.

Since then, our society has slowly evolved to being more and more open about sex and the result is what we see today. People placing a ridiculous amount of importance on sex - whether you're having it or not.

I just hate the idea of just being someone's booty call. Like you don't get this for nothing.

I agree with you so much!!! It's weird because I was actually thinking about this when I was reading the TMI forum this afternoon.

I'm a pretty sexual person, when in sexual situations. But I think a lot of people feel the need to overcompensate if they feel (conventionally) sexually unattractive by over-communicating every sexual encounter they have. Is that too brutally honest? Oh well.

I mean I love sex, but the point of it isn't to gain some sort of bragging rights like some people think. The point is to feel good; physically, emotionally, or both. Is that really so hard to understand? What the fuck.

Anyone can have sex, no matter how ugly or pretty, weird or normal, smart or stupid, etc. so I don't get why people think they haven't had sex because they're not attractive enough or because they're this or that - the reason they haven't had sex is because they haven't had sex. They haven't had an opportunity yet. It's that simple.