You're welcome. nuhuh you're the best! if she does just tell her she needs to cut back on drinking because obviously her drinking is a big problem and needs to be addressed. i mean i know it may seem mean but if she's going to act like that then she. needs ti cut back on the alcohol consumption.
Then maybe her drunkeness caused her to say things she didn't mean but tbh she shouldnt be saying that to anyone.
It doesn't botheer me because after 24 years of being around her, you learn to ignore her. my grandma says a lot of stuff to make people feel like shit because she has somee sort of chemical imbalance or mental/emotional problem (she got thrown off by a horse and hurt her head or something i beleieve).
How the hell can anyone say to a member of their family? That's a shitty way of repaying you for what you and your work did for her. :( I think she might've been too drunk or something or maybe she's miserable and wants everyone else to be the same way. my grandma's done something like that to me before.