I think your friend was right. And you know, your mum is probably just going through things herself and not everyone agrees on ways to grieve. Try to ignore it. If you want I can make you some playlists - sad stuff/stuff about death, stuff with no lyrics, happy and upbeat things - whatever you want. I have loads of lists from when different people I love passed on, and sometimes it actually does help to listen to sad music, other times it helps to get lost in mind-numbing mainstream crap. Other times it just helps to listen to the nothingness that comes with instrumental and classical. Also if you have an iPhone I can recommend some apps that play sounds and possibly connect your Apple account to mine so you don't have to pay for them. July 3rd, 2015 at 07:43am