Why I Haven't Came Out / Photoshop Drop - Comments

man, i feel you on the gender thing. i don't even fuckin' know what my gender is -- agender something? maybe? -- but i guarantee that no one around here could be talked into using neutral pronouns since "it's so difficult why are you making this so hard on me, the cis person"

on the other hand those are some hella nice edits. good job yes

@ capax infiniti.
I think the double-exposures look so pretty. I wanna do more

I know a few genderfluid people (there's this LGBT youth center very close, so I know people of most 'unusual' genders and orientations). Some of them go by 'they' pronouns, while others--like you--don't care. People will hate, but you're all valid.

Also I love the double-exposure. Those are so fun to do.

I told someone yesterday that I was genderfluid, and he got so high and mighty. He said the exact same thing, plus, "Well, you have a vagina and tits. You can't be fluid." It doesn't bother me when people naturally use she/her. Sometimes I wish they would use neutral pronouns, but I can't complain when I haven't come out yet. But it's so difficult to tell someone that. And you're right, when they shoot down who you are, it really bums me out. Like, it takes a lot of courage, as you said. The last thing you want is to be told you're overreacting, and to pick a gender. It's not that easy. I'm sorry that this happened to you. It's sad, but this is the same reason I haven't come out to a lot of people.