Yes the man is here to tell you and put you in your place. This entire discussion is being severely obstructed by this general attitude, (which ironically enough, seems quite sexist) where either I'm made out to be some oppressor of women, or man vs woman, etc etc.
- Kurtni:
- @ Xsoteria
You didn't answer my question. I asked what exactly a woman needs to do to make things easier for the public. What can we do to prevent men from staring, because I don't think there is anything a woman can do, aside from never going out into public. People stare at women who can breastfeed with a cover like they're porn stars, even when nothing is showing. What exactly can us poor little women do to help ourselves? (Naturally, we need a man to tell us how to breastfeed. )
I'm not making this about gender, or about sex, everyone else seems to be doing this. I was trying to be objective and approach the issue from a more neutral, social position where it doesn't really matter who or what you are, but the principles of your behavior and are they applicable in real world, or even more importantly, in other situations. But the fact that I'm a man seems to render most of my arguments invalid.
As for your question, I don't think that a woman who pulls a shirt over her breast as much as possible, or places a paper tissue over the exposed parts, or goes somewhere less exposed, or just generally shows her desire to not be looked upon - is in the wrong when she is offended for being persistently watched.
But the ones who do nothing to demonstrate their desire to not be looked upon, or don't move thier breasts out of plain view, are not in the right to be rude to the onlookers. Does this answer your question?
September 26th, 2012 at 08:43pm