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  • XxmidnightvioletxX

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    haha loved zombies. . . "Eli's being a fuck face again" your awsome!
    August 20th, 2010 at 06:51am
  • lazydancer

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    Yeah, I agree and I hate the fact that there's jobs that are called Counselors that don't even really help all that much. But sometimes there's ones that just are able to help you so much. And maybe that's why they keep the job because they know that at least 1 out of of 1000 kids in high school will get some help. I'm kind of thinking that maybe I'd like to focus on teens/young adults dealing with grief and depression. Because I think just being able to talk about it to someone that has nothing to do with anything in your life (except listen to you talk) and won't judge anything you say.
    I don't understand why people are judged so much for how they feel. Even if it's something stupid like being jealous about something for five minutes, why judge them? Everyone's human, no one's perfect.
    August 17th, 2010 at 06:47am
  • lazydancer

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    Yeah, that's true. I really like the fact that I'm getting a new start.
    I'm only taking two classes this semester because I can't handle taking four. (I feel like a baby, but I'd rather just take the two that I can handle rather than take four and fail three of them - like I did last semester).
    But this is my first time being away from home and what not so I think I'll use any free time that I have, to either drive the hour and a half to where my best friend is living in a dorm and going to school. Or drive the two hours and a half home to see my parents (and my cat! I miss my cats, haha).
    But I might get a job after classes start if I feel that can do it. There's this store in our mall that's sorta kinda like the store in Cracker Barrel, but not. And the lady there seems like she needed a lot of help so my friend and I gave her our information so I might just help her out if she needs it.

    Yeah, I'm undecided. And every time I say that to someone they're like, "Oh, well you're young, you'll figure it out." I thought about teaching, but I took a class one semester (Foundations of Education) and realized that is not for me. Lately (I haven't really told anyone this) I've been thinking about being some type of Counselor.
    I wouldn't want to be a therapist or anything because it seems to have become such a negative thing - going to see a therapist.
    I'd like to just be someone that anyone can come to talk to, to just be that person for anyone that needs someone to just listen and not judge. I just feel that a lot people feel like they don't have anyone to talk to, or anyone that will actually listen to them. That all people really want is to just be heard. And just feeling that way myself, I wish that no one had to ever feel like that. And if I could help someone, just knowing that I've help even a little would be so rewarding.
    August 16th, 2010 at 06:04am
  • still a secret

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    Hello! I really love the stories you write and I was thinking it would make sense that I would like the stories you read too. Can I ask for some of the titles that you enjoy here on mibba? :)
    August 14th, 2010 at 05:21pm
  • lazydancer

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    Ah, I'm sorry that you have to work to pay for school. I'm one of the lucky ones that had a nice grandfather who left me some money. Though I'm thinking about getting a job because I'm technically in my second year of college and have no sort of decree or any kind of certificate to show for it.
    I've failed a lot of classes because apparently I can't handle taking four at a time, I end up just getting overwhelmed. And because I'm a very skilled procrastinator, I want til the last, last minute and then end up not even doing the assignment.
    So, in other words, I've wasted some money so I don't know if I'll have enough left to finish school (I still don't know what I want to do). Plus I have to use some of that money to pay for rent ('cause my dad says that that money is for school and so because I moved to go to school - which isn't really true either, my best friend's sister moved to go to school and she needed someone to help with rent and she wanted to be closer to her sister, my best friend. So even though I didn't want to go, I new that it would be the best thing for me because I haven't been happy at home. But anyway, I have to use that money for rent as well.)
    I'm looking forward to a fresh start, and I have faith that things will work out.

    What are you going to school for?
    August 11th, 2010 at 05:58pm
  • lazydancer

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    I moved from my parents house into an apartment with my best friend's sister. She's going to an university, while I'm going to a local community college.
    It's been going pretty good so far, I miss my cats, and my mom a lot though. I'm really close to my parents, my mom's my best friend. My mom's already written me a letter telling me what's she's been doing and that she misses me and that my cat Luca misses me.

    Oh man, I know you want money, but don't over work yourself okay?
    What kind of jobs are there?
    August 10th, 2010 at 06:31am
  • lazydancer

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    Oh my goodness. I miss you toooo.
    I am sorry that we have not talked in so long!
    I moved. So I've been busy packing and all the jazz. I moved from the east coast of FL to the west coast.
    Right now we only have a modem (or well we have a router but we don't know if it's going to work yet), so I only have internet if my laptop is plugged in.
    So what have you been up to? How have you been?
    August 10th, 2010 at 05:20am
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    I basically shit my dipes when I saw that you had updated. You are so fantastic. Just sayin'.
    June 30th, 2010 at 06:18am
  • YouThunderStealer!!!

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    yes... it is a valid excuse.
    i'm sorry for your loss and of course i hope your doing better than before.
    June 22nd, 2010 at 09:53am
  • iHeartDinosaurs

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    Sorry for your lost. Cheer up quickly all your fans are here. :)
    June 15th, 2010 at 03:52pm
  • MassRomantic

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    Hey darling,
    I'm so sorry to hear about the people you have lost. I hope you are doing okay. I realize we haven't talked in a while (I got so crazy busy, had a mental breakdown, and then came back in a span of about 3 months) and I missed you, so I decided to check in and saw this post on your profile.
    Anyways, I hope everything gets better soon, and I miss you bunches and bunches <3
    June 15th, 2010 at 02:05am
  • chronicflower

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    So I was reading your story How to Make a Human.. And you were most definitely right about the earlobe thing. I'm tugging and they feel so long.
    June 14th, 2010 at 08:41am
  • becomingtes

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    Hey, I just wanted to let you know that I've really enjoyed reading your "How to Make a Human" story so far and I'm really stoked about the next update.
    Also I'd like to say that I'm very sorry for your losses. So take your time on updating.
    - Tes
    June 14th, 2010 at 05:43am
  • still a secret

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    Ah I don't think you need to apologize, but that's nice of you letting us know about your life. I hope everything turns out alright for you. :)
    June 11th, 2010 at 05:35pm
  • lazydancer

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    I don't think that you need to make any excuses, like I said before, mibba's not that important compared to other things in life.
    All I can really say is to take your time, and I'm sorry that you've had and are having to go through what you're going through. I honestly just want you to be happy, so come back to mibba when you have the time and the energy, I'll be here waiting for you.
    i love you,
    katie
    June 4th, 2010 at 01:33am
  • driftwood.

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    Life kinda sucks when it's busy. I'm sorry for all your losses though I don't know what good it will do coming from me :)

    I hope you're life can get less hectic so you can provide all your avid readers with their beautifully written stories :P
    May 31st, 2010 at 12:18pm
  • mysterydreamer

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    Just wanted to say I miss u! And hope ur doing okay! <3
    May 19th, 2010 at 05:17pm
  • ktbkrayz

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    Hi there! I just read all of the chapters you have up for "How to Make a Human". I just wanted to tell you how utterly amazing this story is! I was laughing so hard through it! I am so very sorry about your loss. Every person you come to know and love becomes a piece of your heart, and I know it's tough to carry on when that piece of your heart is missing. Anyway, I wanted to thank you for the wonderful story-in-progress.
    May 7th, 2010 at 06:26am
  • mysterydreamer

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    I'm so sorry about your loss...hope you're doing okay...Take all the time you need!
    March 26th, 2010 at 05:10am
  • lazydancer

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    I am terribly sorry about your loss. Take your time, mibba's not that important.
    I love youuuuu!
    March 22nd, 2010 at 03:37am