Why Should I Get Out of Bed Tomorrow? - Comments

  • Kismet

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    Okay. (I'm in high school) I'm going through, and have gone through almost the exact same thing. Except some days my 'friends' would ignore me, others they'd say that I said something about someone when I didn't. Or they'd b!tch me out. It always depend(s/ed) on their mood.

    I don't eat lunch with the other people on most days. I'll sit in the Student Help Center and do homework with this older girl that's in there for study hall. She's a better friend than my 'bestie' and honestly, I couldn't tell you her name.

    Sometimes I don't get outta bed in the morning. I just lie and say that I'm sick. But I don't recommend that. But, what I do recommend is something that I know would've helped me, no matter how uncomfortable; BRANCH OUT. Go hang out with the loners, the stoners, the emos, the preps, the jocks, the 'nobodies': whoever seems friendly. Just...talk. Be nice. Smile, even when you don't want to.

    I know - easier said than done. But just try it. And, I'll be here if you need someone to talk to, to help you through things, or to just vent to. : )
    September 29th, 2009 at 06:09am
  • marie antoinette;

    marie antoinette; (100)

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    If I went to your school, I would be your friend. Usually the 'left out' kids are the coolest. I used to be one. Not fun.
    But trust me, you will meet some pretty cool people in your life, that will like you for who you are. It just takes some time. Keep your head up. Middle school is just the beginning. :)
    September 29th, 2009 at 06:06am
  • Inked Art

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    Wow. Sounds tough. I'm in highschool, and I've been in nearly the same situation.
    I had two 'friends' who ignored me most of the time, and hated it whenever I tried to broaden my friendships. It was a bitch, and so were they - I'm sorry to say that the only was I got out of it was when my parents made me move school :/
    That was after my intense downward spiral.
    I was younger than you, but I'm older enough now to know that giving up on life was probably THE worst thing I could have done, and am thankful I got out of it.
    I'm here to talk to you - having been in the same situation - I'll try to help you out (:
    All you need to do is ask
    September 29th, 2009 at 05:41am
  • Airi.

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    Middle school was tough for me too. I think it's tough for all kids. Everyone is very cruel there. I'm not going to lie. But you can't give up just yet. Remember, there are a lot better things that will come once you get out of middle and high school. It'll get better. You're fourteen, you can't give up on life just yet. Keep your head held high and don't let any of them drag you down.

    If you ever need to talk, I'm here to listen and possibly give advice. I'm going through a pretty similar thing with my own school, maybe having someone going through the same situation will help you? I'm always here if you need to talk or just rant.
    September 29th, 2009 at 05:33am
  • headcase

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    I saw the title and all I could think of was: to see the sun rise. Always cheers me up (:

    I don't think there's any point in staying home, you're just going to have to go the next day. You can't stay at home everyday.
    You're only fourteen - it gets easier, trust me.
    September 29th, 2009 at 05:32am
  • dropbeats

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    Middle school is tough.
    You'll get through it.
    While all those losers are having their hay day in grade 7-12,
    you'll become successful in whatever field of work you choose, because you did your school work,
    and they will be flipping burgers and pumping gas.
    I know it seems like these are the worst days of your life,
    but once you're done, you'll look back and laugh at how stupid it all is.
    Keep your head up high beautiful.
    September 29th, 2009 at 05:29am