dear you,
I wish I could erase those months we were together, or at least erase the memory of them. i remember that first time we talked, when kady made those jokes about her pimping me out to you and the way you smiled at me and then later that night how we talked and you told me how you had thought i was some typical girl but i was different. i thought you were different too. i remember how you were manipulating me back then, talking about how you were going to leave the course, threatening to kill yourself and the way i begged you not to. i was under your control from the very start wasn't i? right from the start you had this hold on me and it terrifies me to think you might still have that hold on me. what would happen if you tried to get me back? would i come running and let you control me all over again?
and most importantly, why?
did you treat every girl like that? or was it just me? and why? I must have done something wrong, been so terrible that you hated me so fucking much that you had to do that to me. did you really love me, in your own messed up way, or was i just some plaything for you to amuse yourself with? you warned me right at the start to stay away from you because you'd hurt me, told me i should be scared of you. i laughed and said you were being hard on yourself. but you were right, oh god you were right. i loved you, i really did and all you did was hurt me. and everyone warned me away from you. grant, kat, craig, anthony, my family, hell even linda warned me away from you. and i didn't listen because i was sure you'd change. and you did, but not for the better.
all those times you put me down, all those times you pushed me around, when you gripped my wrists so tight that you left bruises and i had to wear sweatbands and jumpers, all those times when you told me i couldn't go out with friends or you accused me of cheating and broke up with me. all those times you made me come running back and then kicked me away again, and those times you'd storm out at three in the morning and i'd sob and cry but you'd leave me all alone. all those times you pushed me and flung me into my bed, the wall, my bookcase. why? what did i do?
i can't stand the thought of ever seeing you again. i'm sure i never cross your mind but you've broken me inside with the way you treated me. maybe you think it's no big deal, but i cant shake your voice from my head. i feel that one day we'll have to meet again so i can get answers from you, but i'm scared of the hold you have over me, a cold fear in the pit of my stomach.
but i digress, i wish we'd never met.
- amy.
March 11th, 2012 at 11:55pm