Agreed.
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- Cyber bullying is bad, I know.
But sometimes, I think face to face bullying is worse.
I get pushed around a lot at school. (Well, my old school now) And I've had to put up with the kids saying really nasty stuff to my face.
It was just the two of us when it happened, so it's my word against theirs. Nothing can be done about it. However, if the did it online, there would be proof that it took place, not just my word against theirs.
I think schools spend too much time going on about the dangers of cyber-bullying when the face to face bullying is far worse, and they can't do anything about it, compared to the technology which can be used to track cyber bullies.
The thing about cyber bullying is that you can choose to ignore it but when it comes to confrontational bullying, that's just different.
Teachers never at my school tackle face to face bullying. Girls are just too secretive and word things in such a way that only the person who it's intended is hurt. Then the moment you try to tell them someone is bullying you they take the side of the bully, unless you have written evidence to support your claim.
I know this may sound wrong, but bullying is always going to be there. It's never going to stop, so in some sense, yes we can whine about it and get upset but ultimately the only way to stop bullying is to ignore it or get back at the bully. That came out wrong.
But have you guys ever noticed that bullies get worse when you dob them in? Or that some just get more ruthless when you stand up to them?
As pessimistic as it sounds, it's always going to be there and we just have to learn how to deal with it in our own way. Despite how much it hurts.
However pedophiles on the internet as harassment is just not on. That stuff it just friggin' creepy.
December 1st, 2008 at 01:59pm