Cyber Bullying & Online Harrasment

The only form of cyber bullying I've ever had to deal with is over on facebook. This girl was posting in my honesty box that I was a loner and had no friends. She quit after a few days though, probably got bored.

^ That's horrible omgno: :arms:
Back when I was like, 12 or 13, and first started posting my stories on Quizilla, this chick kept messaging me and telling me that my stories sucked and that I wished I was as good as her or something like that :roll:

I think cyber bullying is pathetic, really, and it happens wayyyy too often.

Way to much. The people do it for the fun of it to, knowing that that person that they're abusing can't really do anything back. Quizilla gave me all that spam. Some said I sucked, some said I should update faster. Mibba is a much nicer community. ^-^

Rose Red:

The only form of cyber bullying I've ever had to deal with is over on facebook. This girl was posting in my honesty box that I was a loner and had no friends. She quit after a few days though, probably got bored.

People are absolutely disgusting. :arms: That is just shocking.

I've been cyber bullied by my own friends. Now ex-friends. They purposely posted stuff on myspace etc about how they were purposefully leaving me out of everything and making all my friends turn against. It really showed you who my true friends were and they just stuck by me, not believing the bullocks these "friends" fed to everyone.

What annoys me is that people think they can away with it because they're anonymous. A lot of things a left to interpretation too, because something that may look harmless can mean a lot more if read by the right person.

You know what hurts more than some random bullying you? You're own friends because they know where it hurts. :sad:

In my opinion it is really point less to bully people and aruge over the interent. I mean dosen't it make more sence to bully someone and argue with someone face to face so you can see their reaction. I haven't done the bullying thing via internet or in person but I have been a victum of it.. It sucks. I know that bullying no matter where it comes from or what form it comes in hurts but I got over it via the internet. Now for some people they can't do that. I totally am agenst cyber bullying its a complete waste of time.

Haha, I laugh about it now, but I've had some interesting shit leveled at me over the web. Once when I was sixteen, so old and wise enough to laugh it off. Just some girl who had been friends with my girlfriend before I'd known her and hated me and blah blah blah.

The first time I was fourteen, I think. I'd been in a pretty abusive relationship with this girl, and she opened a MSN conversation (shortly after I'd told her it was finally, totally over) and proceeded to hurl things like "you'll never be the centre of anyone's universe except your own" and "i'm on to you, bitch" and "you're not even two faced, two isn't enough for the queen of the world" and really just a lot of very hateful bullshit. I broke down completely, I'm actually kind of ashamed to say. I just sat there and watched what she typed and cried. She was accusing me of trying to steal her friends, and telling me no one would ever love me like she had, and you know... she was kind of just psycho o.O

But I write songs about it now, so it's all good ^^

I can't believe people in my school still bully other people over msn even when many people have come to our school to talk about it. There are around 11 pages on it at the back of our agenda.

I've been through the crap, some girl once hate message me on msn I blocked and deleted her. The next day, someone told me her username was "Gonna Kill Jay!!!", I was scared shit less, she wouldn't talk to me at school but she'd type horrid things through msn. Soon enough, I talked (okay yelled, a little bit) and I told her all this bull crap so she just kind of gave up.

It's horrible. :hand:

the people who do cyber bullying need to grow up and take a step into the real world, it is fucked up enough with out getting shit from people on the internet. Though I still say that its pointless to fight and bully via the internet but it dose hurt people.

At the start of the summer , some girls at school started an I Hate Aoife page on Bebo. I got loads of mail from them , and they used the internet to spread rumours about me.
:mrgreen:

The Corpse Bride.:

At the start of the summer , some girls at school started an I Hate Aoife page on Bebo. I got loads of mail from them , and they used the internet to spread rumours about me.
:mrgreen:

that's horrible. :arms: It's beyond me why people do that kinda thing. Some people have watched mean girls way too many times.

[Btw, I love your name, Aoife is a great name, tis my middle name, well on my Irish passport anyhoo x]

The Corpse Bride.:

At the start of the summer , some girls at school started an I Hate Aoife page on Bebo. I got loads of mail from them , and they used the internet to spread rumours about me.
:mrgreen:

omgno:

I'm so sorry to hear that. And if that was their choice (which it was), it shows their true bitchiness. :hug:

Am I a bitch if I used to bully someone online, just a little bit? omgno:

I know now that it was a horrid thing to do, but I was naive at the time and unaware of the consequences. It sounds like an excuse, but it's true.

I think I was about 11-12, and I sort of hated this one girl, but sorta liked her too. I was a two-faced person, yes omgno:. This girl stole my best friend's boyfriend, so I was pretty pissed. And then, two other girls didn't like her either, so we waited until she came online and I started off a conversation with her on MSN. Then, the other two girls came in and we started turning on her, asking her why she stole my friend's boyfriend, etc. Then, she threatened to print the conversation and show our principal, so we were all like Shit, we gotta stop before we get booked., so we left the conversation box. This was during the summer vacation, but we were still scared.

After that, I promised myself I would never cyber bully. omgno:

But a couple months ago this kid was bothering my best friend so I spam'd his ass, though that doesn't really count as cyber bullying. :tehe:

^ Yes Danee, that is a horrid thing to do. Just think twice next time, and spamming is not nice either.

Stephen Gomez.:

^ Yes Danee, that is a horrid thing to do. Just think twice next time, and spamming is not nice either.

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I think the reason it's so common these days is because it's just so much easier to say something over the internet, than to actually go up to someone and say something. These people are just kids, sitting behind their little computer screens, thinking they're all that.
MAN UP!
If you wanna say something, fucking say it to the persons face

^ I agree completely , it's just a cowardly way of gaining some control.

^ Yeah, it's just so sad

Freddie Mercury.:

I think the reason it's so common these days is because it's just so much easier to say something over the internet, than to actually go up to someone and say something. These people are just kids, sitting behind their little computer screens, thinking they're all that.
MAN UP!
If you wanna say something, fucking say it to the persons face

I completely agree.
See, you know the irony behind this is that when you confront these people they deny everything and refuse to listen to you in person. But the moment you mention something on the internet:
"Oh My God, I cannot believe she wrote that."
It's easier because the kids don't have to deal with the repercussions of their actions. It's words, and words are always open to interpretation.