V For Virgin.

I want to wait till I'm older.
Having sex at a young age is just stupid.

Valo Ink.:

I want to wait till I'm older.
Having sex at a young age is just stupid.

I don't think it's stupid, because sometimes it's not all intentional, but that's on a whole other subject. :file:

Lonna Lullaby.:

Valo Ink.:

I want to wait till I'm older.
Having sex at a young age is just stupid.

I don't think it's stupid, because sometimes it's not all intentional, but that's on a whole other subject. :file:

Not when it's unintentional.
When its planned, like my weird friends plan to have sex in the woods, then thats stupid.

Oh...okay, now I see what you're saying. Yea that's pretty sick.

That is stupid.
Having sex in weird places just to brag that you've done it there.

I know this one girl who brags all the places she's done it, and with different guys.
She's 15. It's disgusting.

However, if people wanted to do it somewhere... romantic.. :shifty I have no problem with that. It's just the showing off and using it as dares that annoys me.

I don't think people should judge others for having sex at a young age.
It's not you, so let them do as they please.
In fact, if it is with the right person and under the right circumstances, then good on them. They did better than a lot of other girls sleeping around.

I can feel either way about it. It's not for me, so I really can't speak for others, but I guess I can act as if I were them.
It's really a matter of comfortability. Some people are ready and some find it disturbing; clearly shown by comments here, too.
I'd not be for it, but that's but my opinion.
It seems sex can be genuine and full of happiness, or lacking of emotions. Both can be positive in certain directs.

Based on a matter of opinion.
It can be a hobby or a special treat.

It does tend to increase to some sick and difficult matters, however. I've seen it in front of my eyes back in somewhat April. A girl in homeroom was watching her boyfriend on his knees, hands pressed in a praying motion, as he /begged/ her to have sex with him. She was so confused and worried and clearly didn't agree with it. And then we had her friends over in the doorway and being puppies about it, pointing out "he's begging you. You have to." And when they walked away, he told her she had an hour to say yes or he was going to freak out. Finally, she got the teacher to talk to her about it, but it was all so very sad for her. I'm pretty sure she said "no" and kept it that way. She was only thirteen. I didn't want to see this stranger messing up her life with a baby or living with knowing she had sex with a guy she'd only been dating for a little while.

Sex is like a tube of Pringles.

Once you pop you just can't stop.

But make sure you keep them in the cupboard for a while and share them with only someone you trust and care for. It makes that first Pringle so much more satisfying and meaningful.

And yes I am fully aware that I just compared intercourse to a potato-based salty snack.

I'm a virgin.I would like the be a virgin on my wedding night, but if the situation arises and I love the person I'm with, I don't think that my purity will be with me on my first night.

I am a proud virgin. I do not want sex right now, I've never even been on a date. That's right, I'm 17 years old and I've never once dated. I don't want to right now, all the guys I know are morons anyway. I'm, like most other people here, waiting for the right guy to come along. Even then I wouldn't do it until it's the right time, whether we're married or not (although I would like to be).

I have a god-sister, let's call her 'Annie'. She's 15 years old, she parties aparentely and she's had boyfriends since she was just a kid. She always was kind of a bitch but then her father did verbally abuse her for a long time. I feel scared for her though, she was such a strong girl. The last time I saw her she was bragging about her boyfriend and whatnot, she was 11. Her parents just divorced (finally), and according to my mom, her mom has her on birth control. She didn't really say if Annie was doing anything, but the birth control thing...

Jay Tee:

Sex is like a tube of Pringles.

Once you pop you just can't stop.

But make sure you keep them in the cupboard for a while and share them with only someone you trust and care for. It makes that first Pringle so much more satisfying and meaningful.

And yes I am fully aware that I just compared intercourse to a potato-based salty snack.

Haha.
Although that's kinda odd, it's so true!
Like, it is something that should only be shared with people you love and trust :)

I'm still a virgin.

Wow, everyone here seems to be. In these parts you're lucky if you make it to be legal...

Then again, it never seemed to be an issue (11 year olds aside, of course) until if was so fashionable to talk openly about it. I remember when I was in highschool it was still very hush-hush, and that was only a few years ago.

Jay Tee:

Sex is like a tube of Pringles.

Once you pop you just can't stop.

But make sure you keep them in the cupboard for a while and share them with only someone you trust and care for. It makes that first Pringle so much more satisfying and meaningful.

And yes I am fully aware that I just compared intercourse to a potato-based salty snack.

I love you for that allegory! :mrgreen:

i was considered a slut because people heard i had sex at 10....i was raped at ten and sadly im okay with it.i mean its over and done and now my parents cant hate me or have a chance to be ashamed of me because i had sex at an early age.it wasnt my fault.

but then again some girls have sex and try to say they were raped so they wont be sluts and thats sad.you would risk someones lifetime to protect yourself.throwing someone in prison over a lie is flat out sick. and having sex at 11 is sad definently when it was like consensual....thats sad.

I lost my virginity about two weeks ago.
I was leaving my home town and I had this best friend I had had since I was 3 and we were both upset and then things started to happen.
I don't regret it, what can I say, it was the best goodbye I had.

It is wrong for kids to be having sex. The legal age is what it is for a reason. Not to restrict, but to protect.

Some people under the legal age are emotionally mature and responsible enough to have sex. Most aren't.

I'm a virgin, and plan to stay that way for a while. I'm in no rush to give away something I may regret and can never take back. :file:

My exf-riends & random people they know yell at me to stay a virgin until I'm in my twenties. I have desire to have sex but I'm also a little afraid to date because of that.

yeahh I'm 15 and still a virgin, I'm probably not gonna have sex until I'm out of highschool only because it leads to so much drama and crap like that.

but heyy if im with a guy i truly trust and respects me, then maybe, probably...

ZOMBIE! Tinkerbell:

My exf-riends & random people they know yell at me to stay a virgin until I'm in my twenties. I have desire to have sex but I'm also a little afraid to date because of that.

I can understand why you're afraid to date. So am I, but for different reasons.
I can't understand the concept of dating at all. I can't really understand the friend/lover boundary either. But that's okay. I'm afraid to date in the meaning of sex because of pressure. I think females seem more understanding about that and are less "OKAYWEDOITNOW." Unless they're hookers or something. >>

But yeah. That's why I don't think I'll ever date a male.

Really, I'm disgusted with the view of sex these days. There are quite a lot of people I know who treat it like it's a casual thing and that having intercourse, at no matter what age, is just a joke. They act like everyone does it. It comes up in conversation every day, and when it does, it's never serious. They talk about it like they talk about the weather.

Personally, I think you should only have sex if you're 1.) sure you're ready 2.) in love with the person you want to lose your virginity to, and 3.) fully aware and responsible enough to accept any consequences that come with it. I am a Christian, but I don't believe that you necessarily be married to have sex. However, unless you really want to end up pregnant, you should definitely have plenty of protection.

I am a virgin, and I'm proud of it. I know plenty of people who have already had sex with others that don't even matter much to them. I just shake my head. When I fall in love with a guy and I find myself completely ready for it, then I will consider it. I don't have any desire to rush into an intimate relationship with anyone... I mean, I am only fourteen. It'll be the same if I'm 20 and still a virgin. The right moment will come in time.