I can see her not wanting to tell anyone about some of the times in her life. I can see his pain though because she wouldn't tell him for the longest time. Everyones trust timeline is different I would suspect that definitely after a year everything would be out but shouldn't the knowledge that it was a battle with yourself and pressure be enough for a bit..
And yes Jon, guys are allowed to be huggers. I am from the midwest and have 3 older brothers, we were all raised as huggers.. friends family etc..
She really shouldn't be upset with Jon for Goggling her and her family. She should have been open and honest when they decided they were serious. I don't blame Jon for being upset about secrets!!